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[b]A very abusive boyfriend!!![/b]

Postby angelforever21 » Fri Mar 27, 2009 10:17 pm

I want to share this story with people and show them what my ex boyfriend mike has done. I was put done verbally and emotionally I have never been as hurt as I am now by a man in my life. I am now out of the relationship. It took name calling and him HACKING into my account to find a message i had written looking to meet friends. I am trying to heal emotionally but I think its going to take me a while i hurt bad and cry everyday mostly feeling sick to my stomach that i let a man $#%^ on me.


I was called a slut,@@@@@@@,whore,bitch, escorting which i would never do. But i didnt get out of the relationship when i should of until i found out he cheated on me and i couldnt handle the names. I was nieve and stupid and am emotionally and physically ###$ from this. I have his whole family attacking me on top of friends. I still get harrassed day to day but now put my foot down. I have blocked numbers and these are emails which I cant block. I now just dont read the emails and delete them.

I was tired of getting all these emails so I said I would report this stuff and here is the response i get.


High end escorts look good. U are not high end. I've seen high end escorts and they are hot, big boobs, prettier faces than yours. You are low end or less. I am not an escort by the way but was accused of it and have nothing against people who do that.

I felt like a necrophilia ######6 you because all you would do is lie there and stare at the ceiling. Maybe it's a good thing you became an escort because maybe you won't bore the next boyfriend, you can actually get some experience. Why are you giving out my sister's email, she should call the police, leave her out of this.

Any way, all you do is stare at the ceiling with your ######6 crooked ass, bulbus Owen Wilson nose, paper thin lips squealing like a stuck pig. You are a pro-active before picture nightmare, you make the before people look like they have been on proactive for a year!

Have a nice life, being a cum guzzling pig. Do all the drugs you want, all you will be is a beat up, worthless $20 hastings crack head ###$ when you are done. All the girls I ###$ around on you with were way hotter, and kim wanted to be with me, I am getting letters from them honey. As for the last girl, I'm not going to say her name because it appears that somebody dimed me out.

Love, Mike, X


I said stop emailing me or i will report you i dont want to hear it this is his sister who is involved threatening me my ex boyfriends sister.
ok, it's all done. Child services assure me they have the email, I called, they are open 24 hours. I also called and spoke with welfare and told them that "I am jealous that my friend gets to use her check for traveling to Toronto, her name is sue from vancouver" And they said they are going to look into it. It does not matter what province you go to, as soon as you try to apply for Taxes, that owing will be there, try to get welfare, you will have to pay them back. You see, I know of someone who did the same thing, you end up owing the government and the government takes it off your GST. GST is next month. Lets see what you get out of it.

You'd better bet I'd stay up late to do this $#%^, I don't take it lightly when someone threatens me about my kids, and 27 people have copies off all our messages. So, expect to be hearing from people soon about that.

By the way, don't pick on Tiffany, she didn't do anything wrong either. And as for that message about your friends that you want me to meet, I asked someone about that. I know who you are talking about and it won't fly. That number you called me from, Kriss, the friends you are talking about, Jessica. That's who you were with today. And I sent this email to them too about how you call her an air head and everything, and say that kriss does all those harsh drugs, they will hear all that from me. I am in full protective mode from your psychotic ass. Go to river view and seek some mental help.

I also told income assistance about how you were going to try and get disability without being disabled, just tell them you have severe depression so you can get some money. I've been to Ontario, I lived there for 2 years, Hayden and Ashton were born there, the Province sucks! And, the disability and income assistance offices are connected through the same system Canada Wide.

I have never been more hurt in my life and discusted with myself his friend confessed he cheated on me and that was the breaking point. It was only that one time. I feel more depressed and suicidal than ever. I went out with this man for two years.

has anybody ever been verbally abused like this how do you heal from something like this.
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Postby Incorrigible » Fri Mar 27, 2009 10:34 pm

Wow, what a douche bag. In a way, I'm glad he cheated on you. It was the nudge you needed to break free from his abuse. You're right, it takes time to heal from something like this. A lot of women would be too scared to leave someone like that. But you were strong enough to walk away from that situation. I have no doubt that you're also strong enough to recover from this. And whatever you do, don't listen to anything people are saying about you. They're just a bunch of idiots.
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Postby angelforever21 » Fri Mar 27, 2009 10:56 pm

I feel sick Why do men verbally abuse woman? do they get a power trip. Does it feel good to hurt someone until there self esteem goes to nothing.
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Postby Incorrigible » Fri Mar 27, 2009 11:17 pm

angelforever21 wrote:I feel sick Why do men verbally abuse woman? do they get a power trip. Does it feel good to hurt someone until there self esteem goes to nothing.


I think anyone who goes through abuse like this would feel the same. It's understandable to feel sick. Just know that your feelings will get better over time.

It could be a power trip. Also, some people can't take responsibility for themselves. They have feelings of negative self-worth. The only way they know how to deal with the feelings is blame directed towards other people.

The things he said to you is more a reflection on him; rather than you.
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Postby Butterfly Faerie » Fri Mar 27, 2009 11:52 pm

I live in Ontario, close to Toronto actually, I dealt with verbal abuse, quite a bit of it, and was called similar names.

It's awful that happened, it hurts worse then physical does, at least physical hurt fades but words last longer.


You deserve much better then what was handed to you, I'm sorry it hurt so much, but can relate.


In terms of emails, report them, what he said is abusive and someone may be able to look into it for you and possibly charge him.

Also, don't reply to emails, block them as well.


H don't mock Ontario my friend, ;) I've been here all my life and I think being here is great lol.


As for the after affects can you go an talk to someone.


I've healed yes... i've healed from a lot of hurts, it can be done.
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Postby Incorrigible » Sat Mar 28, 2009 12:00 am

Butterfly Faerie wrote:H don't mock Ontario my friend, ;) I've been here all my life


That's even more reason to mock Ontario. :lol: :lol: :lol:

Just kidding, my good friend "T". Actually, I believe it's the ex bf's sister that's mocking it; not the OP.
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Postby Butterfly Faerie » Fri Apr 03, 2009 7:10 pm

Incorrigible wrote:
Butterfly Faerie wrote:H don't mock Ontario my friend, ;) I've been here all my life


That's even more reason to mock Ontario. :lol: :lol: :lol:

Just kidding, my good friend "T". Actually, I believe it's the ex bf's sister that's mocking it; not the OP.



You've never even set foot in Canada Incorri. :P
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Postby Incorrigible » Fri Apr 03, 2009 7:52 pm

Butterfly Faerie wrote:You've never even set foot in Canada Incorri. :P


No need when I have the welcoming committee in my own backyard...err, computer screen.
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Postby Butterfly Faerie » Fri Apr 03, 2009 7:52 pm

i'd welcome ya...
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Postby Incorrigible » Fri Apr 03, 2009 8:16 pm

Butterfly Faerie wrote:i'd welcome ya...


Yes, I know you would.. Image
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