by atchley » Sat May 30, 2015 11:30 pm
Dear Sarah21,
I have been a speech-language pathologist specializing in helping individuals who stutter for the past 18 years. I understand the concern you posted here, even though I don't stutter myself. I was disappointed you turned down the hostess job, especially since it sounds like you would have done very well. I am sure you were disappointed as well. I understand your discomfort with hiding your stuttering. As you have contemplated, there are advantages for telling others you stutter and disadvantages for telling people.
When surveyed, my clients recommended telling potential employers about their stuttering during the initial phone interview or during the first in-person interview. Each explained how "coming clean" with their stuttering caused their anxiety about hiding it to go down almost immediately. Instead of focusing on hiding their disfluency, they could then focus on controlling their speech to the best of their ability and presenting themselves well during the interview.
If you take their collective advice in the future, you will never be in the situation you explained here ever again. Also, you will be certain that your new employer accepts you for who you are as an individual. Best of luck in your future endeavors, especially job interviews!
All My Best,
John Atchley