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PLEASE HELP ME I'M ADDICTED TO MASTURBATION HOW CAN I STOP?

Postby addict » Tue Dec 29, 2009 5:31 pm

I am a 16 yr old boy from the philippines. My problem is I am addicted in masturbating. I masturbate twice or trice a day. I think this is my hobby. How can I stop my addiction? It's making my life miserable please help me thanks guys
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Re: PLEASE HELP ME I'M ADDICTED TO MASTURBATION HOW CAN I STOP?

Postby Chucky » Wed Dec 30, 2009 6:28 pm

Hey dude,

I didn't realise that you had posted here too. I replied to your Private Message.

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Re: PLEASE HELP ME I'M ADDICTED TO MASTURBATION HOW CAN I STOP?

Postby UK-SW » Sun Jan 03, 2010 1:46 pm

addict wrote:I am a 16 yr old boy from the philippines. My problem is I am addicted in masturbating. I masturbate twice or trice a day. I think this is my hobby. How can I stop my addiction? It's making my life miserable please help me thanks guys


What you're doing is pretty normal to be honest. You're not addicted to anything, just doing what everyone does.
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Re: PLEASE HELP ME I'M ADDICTED TO MASTURBATION HOW CAN I STOP?

Postby c0nphused » Tue Jan 19, 2010 1:59 pm

I was in the same boat at about your age. I felt immense amount of guilt, shame, and confusion when I was introduced to masturbation.

However, it took me some time to unravel the shame around it. There are two sides to this issue.

It can be a healthy way to relax, purge sexual arousals etc when done in moderation. And given your age, hormones are probably having a dance party in your body. Shame and guilt for me came from my religious/moral/familial expectations. Is it unholy, immoral, or something taboo that must always be hidden away from 'mommy' and 'daddy'? In the end, I decided that none of those people/ideas/institutions have a place in my pants and my bed. How I touch my body and what I do with it is my issue.

On the flip side, if you don't moderate now then I find that your brain chemistry changes and you need to masturbate everyday to relax. I am no expert and this is not a medical diagnosis. Just 10 years of experience in chronic masturbation. (Note: I am not ashamed of it). But I do regret that sometimes I really need to j*** off to relax at the end of the day.

So yea, go ahead. Try not to masturbate everyday because you feel you have proper reasons not to do so. But if you have a slip and do it then don't worry. It doesn't hurt your body. Be sure that you use your fantasy and mind to arouse yourself. Stay away from porn if possible, I find that it desensitizes you to sexual acts and bodies.

Anyways, my two cents.
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Re: PLEASE HELP ME I\'M ADDICTED TO MASTURBATION HOW CAN I STOP?

Postby -Valkyrie- » Sat Mar 06, 2010 4:00 am

Hey that\'s nothing, i used to do it 4 times a day. Just find the right time to do it and you\'re set. You might grow out of it though, just as i did. Now it\'s much less, like a few times a whole week. Give it time.
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Re: PLEASE HELP ME I\'M ADDICTED TO MASTURBATION HOW CAN I STOP?

Postby Chucky » Sat Mar 06, 2010 9:40 pm

-Valkyrie- wrote:Hey that\'s nothing, i used to do it 4 times a day. Just find the right time to do it and you\'re set. You might grow out of it though, just as i did. Now it\'s much less, like a few times a whole week. Give it time.

Just 4? My record is 13 times in one day, but when I was in my mid-teens I was doing it I'd say around 8 times per day. At the moment, I'm doing it only once per day and it doesn't even feel good. I'm only doing it now in the pathetic attempt to rekindle my sex drive (which is nil).

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Re: PLEASE HELP ME I\'M ADDICTED TO MASTURBATION HOW CAN I STOP?

Postby -Valkyrie- » Sat Mar 06, 2010 9:43 pm

Im not into it as much as i was, because more i do it, the more i feel tired. I hate being tired.
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Re: PLEASE HELP ME I'M ADDICTED TO MASTURBATION HOW CAN I STOP?

Postby IvoryBill » Sat Mar 06, 2010 10:28 pm

If you want to reduce how often you masturbate, it might be better to go at it from a more positive angle instead of a guilt/shame/"oh-I'm-a-sinner-I-must-STOP-forever!" angle. When you get the urge, tell yourself, "If I skip this time, it will be better next time." If you let the urge build for a while, even a few hours, there's the promise of the experience being better later. Isn't an orgasm stronger if you haven't had one for a longer time? I'd probably say you could cut yourself to twice a day at first, and down to once a day eventually. Baby steps.

Of course this might be easy for me to say. I'm not a guy and my sex drive is extremely weak even for a female, so I can't reeeeally know what it's like to live with constant sexual tension. For a 16-year-old boy to stop altogether is going against nature, no matter what that Big Punitive God in the Sky says. :roll:
"When I awoke today, suddenly nothing happened,
But in my dreams, I slew the dragon.
And down this beaten path, up this cobbled lane,
Walking in my old footsteps once again."

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Re: PLEASE HELP ME I'M ADDICTED TO MASTURBATION HOW CAN I STOP?

Postby Fakename » Sun Mar 21, 2010 7:48 am

did it 3 times in a day like 4 times in my life, you guys are sick
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Re: PLEASE HELP ME I'M ADDICTED TO MASTURBATION HOW CAN I STOP?

Postby catcat23 » Fri Jun 10, 2011 7:54 am

only 13 times in a day my personal worst :( was 34 times in one day i swear i gained an extra inch that day

but the sad thing is im only 13 years old i have been trying to stop but i keep on doing it like 5 times a day and i hate myself for it :evil:
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