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Postby Alexander408 » Wed Jun 18, 2008 3:10 am

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Postby Schala » Wed Jun 18, 2008 3:20 am

I don't think you're a pedophile.

I would be the target of lolicon fantasies to some, because I'm 25, but look 16-17. So I carry the benefits they want, without the legal trouble.

You can probably find women who enjoy looking younger to the extent I do, or even more - who are adult. And as long as it's safe and consensual (and since it's adults) of course it's not pedophilia.

That's my take on it, though it can be controversial to some.

I don't think it's necessarily unhealthy to be that way, as long as you keep to adult women, and not real teens.

The right term instead of pedophile would be ephebophile (that is teenagers, not children), if it applied. Yet I don't think lolicon does. You can fantasize your partner is 12, when she's 23, if it's good for both partners, I say why not?
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Postby Alexander408 » Wed Jun 18, 2008 3:26 am

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Postby Schala » Wed Jun 18, 2008 3:38 am

If you're a teen yourself, it will depend on consent laws in your state/country.

Some will prosecute a couple with a 17 years old girl and a 18 years old guy, and some will let larger differences go by.

How old are you?
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Re: Am I a pedophile?

Postby Alexander408 » Wed Jun 18, 2008 3:48 am

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Postby Schala » Wed Jun 18, 2008 3:56 am

You can't change it. At best you can 'not act' on it. Sorry for not noticing the age above.

Like I said there are healthy outlets, like women like me who like to appear younger - like much younger. I know some who do. 21 who likes to appear 15 for example. And it's not just clothes I'm talking about. She looks 15. Like I look 16-17. I'd look that way naked too :P

Restrict yourself to 18+ adults, just pick the younger-looking ones. Be sure they're 18 (or more) if you want to be legal.
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Postby Alexander408 » Wed Jun 18, 2008 6:30 am

I'm gonna delete the thread now, as I simply cant sleep with the knowledge I have this on the net. Sorry its too personal. Thanks to Schala for the answers
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Postby anonymousgirl » Wed Jun 18, 2008 10:09 am

Schala is right! I am not very tall, I have cup A breast size and extra small clothing size. I will never look like I'm 12 again , but I guess I can still pass for 16 or something (I am 19). And at my work, there was a girl who asked how old I was. I said "19". She said "Oh, thats young. I am 18". "You are younger than me!" I replied. She started to laugh, and said "It was a joke. How old do you think I really am?" I said "It's hard to tell, but I think you're 23, then." Guess how old she was? Thirty-eight!! :P
So you don't have to be ashamed of your fantasy, as long as you don't sexually assault people who are really that age. And if you stay ashamed of it, you can go to a therapist. He or she can probably helping you with finding out where this fetish comes from, because some fetishes like this have its origin in the youth (Not with all people I guess, I am also not an expert on this)
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Postby Schala » Wed Jun 18, 2008 4:43 pm

I'm bad at guessing ages. My mother is 49 and can pass for 35. I'm 25 and can pass for 16-17.

I have A cups too, but it's mostly my lack of hips, and babyface that makes me look that young.
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