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Postby ON_THE_EDGE » Tue Jun 17, 2008 9:24 am

100-200 miles is a long way, if the trip's for nothing.
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Postby anonymousgirl » Tue Jun 17, 2008 1:53 pm

@ the TS: It is a mean thing to say, but you've had your chance. Man, if you had not acted so stupid when you where younger and just showed some confidence then, you wouldn't be bothering younger girls now. I do not know the situation, maybe there was a very good reason why you were single all the time BUT I don't think so.
so please. Go to a hooker or bother women of your own age. You certainly will not go on a date with younger girls if you keep staring at their breasts, drooling... :roll: For God's sake, show some discipline...
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Postby Parador » Tue Jun 17, 2008 11:23 pm

I'm virgin, 25, soon to be 26. And I'm not really after 'fixing' that. It will all come in time. I'm not saving myself or anything, but I'm not bent on getting laid either.



I used to think that too. Now look at me. A pathetic drooling 40 year old! I'd hate to see it happen to anyone else. SEX SEX SEX SEX. Think it. Look for it. Find it. DO it. BDSM is hot. HOT. Much action on that site?

That hot lithe young blonde was hanging around at work again. wearing TIGHT TIGHT clothes agian!! Why would women do that if they didn't want guys staring at their hotness?
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Postby Schala » Wed Jun 18, 2008 1:02 am

Parador wrote:
I'm virgin, 25, soon to be 26. And I'm not really after 'fixing' that. It will all come in time. I'm not saving myself or anything, but I'm not bent on getting laid either.



I used to think that too. Now look at me. A pathetic drooling 40 year old! I'd hate to see it happen to anyone else. SEX SEX SEX SEX. Think it. Look for it. Find it. DO it. BDSM is hot. HOT. Much action on that site?

That hot lithe young blonde was hanging around at work again. wearing TIGHT TIGHT clothes agian!! Why would women do that if they didn't want guys staring at their hotness?


Some are indeed after the attention - few if any are after being raped of the likes.

I don't have 'action' on sites. I have it in person. I'm going to meet someone who contacted me from there, next weekend.

I will get sex, I can get sex easily if that's the only thing I'm after too - but I'm after a long term relationship and love. Sex will come naturally unless I'm dating someone who's asexual.

I dress rather conservatively, like decently, and I aim for cute rather than sexy (sometimes I manage both, but it's not intentional). Even then offers for plain sex are easy to get by, I'm just not interested.
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Postby anonymousgirl » Wed Jun 18, 2008 9:55 am

Parador wrote:
I'm virgin, 25, soon to be 26. And I'm not really after 'fixing' that. It will all come in time. I'm not saving myself or anything, but I'm not bent on getting laid either.



I used to think that too. Now look at me. A pathetic drooling 40 year old! I'd hate to see it happen to anyone else. SEX SEX SEX SEX. Think it. Look for it. Find it. DO it. BDSM is hot. HOT. Much action on that site?

That hot lithe young blonde was hanging around at work again. wearing TIGHT TIGHT clothes agian!! Why would women do that if they didn't want guys staring at their hotness?


That's no argument. Maybe they just feel more comfortable in that kind of clothes. And even if they wanted to get attention with it, I bet they did not wanted to get it from 40 year olds with sexual frustration issues.
And you are still not answering my questions. What's the reason you are still a virgin, why don't you just go to a hooker and leave innocent people alone, and what's wrong with seeking a women of your age for a relationship?
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Re: Extreme sexual frustration. EXTREME!!!!

Postby Parador » Thu Jun 19, 2008 11:46 pm

I gave most of the explanation for that in my fist post.

Parador wrote: I'm a 40 year old virgin with avoidant personality disorder and I get an intense anxiety reation in any sexual situation with a real woman - porn is fine.



Many men with avoidant personality disorder become older virgins. I may have had a great opportunity when I was 22. There was a woman who lived up the street from me who would offer me rides when she saw me walking. She seemed nice. And she was nice and curvy too. I forced myself to take her up on the ride, but I felt like I would pass out. I managed to chat with her a bit, but I really bolted out of the car at the end. My anxiety was EXTREME and I had to GET AWAY. I had some other chances in and after college. Maybe one in high school. But my self esteem was so poor. My teeth were so crooked - with alcoholic parents I never got braces.

I did have a wonderful platonic relationship that lasted 18 months with a girl when I was 30. She was diabetic and the disease really hit her hard. She had chronic nausea from nerve damage. She lost her foot. She went blind. Her kidneys finally failed and she didn't want to go on. She decided to go off dialysis and end her life. I stayed with her constantly for her last two weeks until she passed away. I held her hand, rubbed her back, and told her that I loved her.

After she died I started to get into porn. I'd never even seen hardcore stuff before that. It was a great distraction.

My father also needed my help at this time. He was getting older and was all alone. I lived with him on weekends and we would hang out together. Then he got really sick and he suffered severe memory loss. He had no one else. I moved in with him and took care of him. He ended up with Alzheimer's disease and it took ten years for him to waste away and die. I worked full time during this so I had no time at all to solve my own problems.

I decided to fix my teeth with porcelain veneers. But after several months they began bothering the soft tissues in my mouth. My tongue started burning up because I was allergic to the cement. It is a very rare reaction and it took me a year of research to prove it well enough to get the dentist to do anything. But I am still having problems with some of the new dental materials tasting like chalk. It is very difficult and uncomfortable to talk. I have spent $18,000 over the last two years to attempt to fix this, but I am still not there. I think about killing myself on bad days.

That's the short version of my pathetic life. Doesn't a guy like me deserve just one fling with a young hottie? I think that would be fair. I guess I'll have to pay her $400 an hour. But right now I need my money to fix the teeth. That may take another year though. Or longer. It is actually possible that it may not be fixable.
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Postby anonymousgirl » Fri Jun 20, 2008 8:03 pm

I feel sorry for you. It was touching that you cared for your father even if he did not do a very good job caring for you when you where younger and he was an alcoholic. You should have seeked help earlier for you personality disorder, and if you did the help wasn't very succesfull. That is too bad. So you already know how a real relationship feels like. That makes things different...I can understand that you also want to know what just shallow sex feels like. You do not have the same appearance as when you were younger...Although some girls may find an older man more interesting than a younger one. You should search on the internet for girls like that or you should ask girls you know carefully about it. Never act desperate. Girls don't like that. You should remain confident. And never let your sexual frustation show. That's the No 1. letdown for woman.
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Postby Parador » Sat Jun 21, 2008 3:39 am

There is actually a sex surrogate treatment that is ideal for guys like me. But that involves mental heath people. I've had enough "help" from professionals. It's a long story. Evil bastards. I have to sink or swim on my own.
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Postby Parador » Mon Jul 14, 2008 1:36 am

I'm going to have to gouge my eyes out. That's the solution.
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Postby kevilars » Mon Jul 14, 2008 7:31 am

well after reading this whole, long ordeal, I'm going to have to get on the side of getting yourself a hooker. I would think that if I were 40 years old was a virgin, I would be filthy stinking rich having not spent very much money entertaining women for that long, I can't even imagine how much I've spent thus far. So seriously, go to vegas, get yourself a top of the line hooker and if need be, have her tie you to the bed so you can't find a reason to get out of it and once it's over you'll have a newfound confidence for sure and you can go after that blonde you work with.
Oh and women wear those kinds of clothes for a few reasons the first is not so men can stare at them, it's so they can look better than some other girl. Adult women never want to be the princess, they want to be the queen. Top of the pecking order, but then of course still protected by some knight in shining armor. Oh, next time you see that blonde you work with, just give her a casual compliment, I suggest tell her you like her shoes, because women take forever to pick out a good pair, so someone telling them they like them is a boost to their confidence.
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