What Psych people say is, " to frequent yourself with sex and unfrequent youself from masterbation. More sex...less masterbation. You will rely on sex more. Masterbation is habit, like drug. But partnership can take it's place.
Subtitlies in physical contact outway anything in masterbation.
Hard core sex addicts look inward and not outward to the partner! Sexual intercourse and sexual contact are a Pair...not single?
Yes, sometimes, stray anxiety hits you! You will masterbate!
Make sure your partner knows the beauty of physical contact and all 1,000,000 different feelings, instincts, ideas, etc.
If the partner is insecure, frequent the time spent in close preximity!
We all have a boundarys. People do this in elevators. One will always take the other corner.
Our social space is around 3-4 ft. Anything closer will have consequences.
Have you ever found someone standing one 1ft in front from you, making conversation, and you want to move back? They are invading your space!
Intimate contact is anything closer! Stay close to your love'd one! The closer, the more the partner will feel secure and you can feel secure!
What people don't understand with a masterbation habit, that it goes so long, it becomes more like drug. The orgasm is relief and you go to bed. No pleasure, no beauty!
What makes it hard is that, when having sex, it is different than the orgasm you find during the habit. Fantasies will be common in your mind to gain orgasim...and slightly drift off to what your partner provides.
Everyone fantasies during sex. If someone does so..don't sweat it! It's normal...Beauty is in the eye of the beholder and if they feel your a sex God/Goddess...that is where they should be! What brings out your love comes within the partner.
During sex, our crued shells take way to what we "see" in each other.
Marriages die from this. We all get laxed and...never get made up like we used to for dates. Kids are on the way and, what we saw is different...unless you are inward bound to the person...and realize you love the inside.
I dated a women older than me...250 lbs...and went through 3 marriages and, all based on sex, for she never thought that anyone would date her for her "homely" looks.
After three years, she asked for her freedom and has found someone. She has been going out with this man for two years. Not bad for a woman who thought all she could do to get a man was sex?
I knew the consequences to my feelings all to well. But, I was also looking at hers and her life.
For a woman like that? I t was an honor to step aside and let her find her own potential.
Sexual contact will outway masterbation. It takes time, effort and communication!
The end justifies the means!
This man was sexually assaulted (rape) and has OCD...yikes!
"It literally turned my life around!"
He worked in a Pyschiatric Hospital as a Nursing's Aid for 5 years.
He was also a patient on a few occasions for suicide, too.