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perversive stalker on net who is rude, possessive and abusiv

Postby Hallusinating » Tue Jul 12, 2011 4:10 pm

I have a perversive stalker on net who is rude, possessive and abusive towards me.

He has told me that he has ED and has had Chlamydia(infertile?).

He insists on having a online affair with me that i haven`t agreed on.
When he doesn`t get what he wants he gets abusive.
I am thinking that this guy must be very desperate for attention from a woman.


Does anyone know how i should deal with him?
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Re: perversive stalker on net who is rude, possessive and ab

Postby Platypus » Wed Jul 13, 2011 5:16 pm

Are you referring to someone on this website? Or is this man contacting you using a different site/means?

Can you block him and ignore him? Does he have your real life contact details, or is he only able to contact you online?
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Postby romoto » Wed Jul 13, 2011 6:44 pm

There seems to be a lot of people like that on the internet, Block and delete.
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Re: perversive stalker on net who is rude, possessive and ab

Postby Hallusinating » Wed Jul 13, 2011 11:53 pm

Platypus wrote:Are you referring to someone on this website? Or is this man contacting you using a different site/means?

Can you block him and ignore him? Does he have your real life contact details, or is he only able to contact you online?



I have given him some information, it just escalated into that.
He lives far away + we are not friends, so i doubt he will come near me.
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Postby Platypus » Thu Jul 14, 2011 3:24 am

In that case I would do what JeffreyA suggested - block and delete.
Is there any reason why you would want to maintain contact with this man?
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Postby GinaSmith » Thu Jul 14, 2011 11:54 am

Block, delete, report to the site owners, etc. If all else fails change your username.

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Block, delete, report to the site owners, etc. If all else fails change your username.
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Re: perversive stalker on net who is rude, possessive and ab

Postby Platypus » Sun Jul 17, 2011 11:53 am

By the way, a new Stalking and Harassment forum has been created. Hallusinating, if you have more troubles please feel welcome to put the new forum to work. :wink:
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Re: perversive stalker on net who is rude, possessive and ab

Postby Hallusinating » Mon Jul 18, 2011 9:32 pm

Very good i think its called for a forum like that.
Thanks everyone for responding :)
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