my son wants to have sex with me

my son has had a sexual interest in me for many years im 46 and he is 19 he lives at home with me ive taken him to couseling and he has not shown any signs of change, ive read alot of forums about other moms who have had sex with their son and theyve all said they enjoy it and it brought them closer together i just was wondering what any one else thought about it

You've taken him to counseling? Take him to some more doctors/therapists, better ones this time, maybe specialists in sexual disorders or sexuality. I sure hope you haven't read forums about adults having sex with children.

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jasmin wrote:You've taken him to counseling? Take him to some more doctors/therapists, better ones this time, maybe specialists in sexual disorders or sexuality. I sure hope you haven't read forums about adults having sex with children.

Yes, this sounds seriously and it's not thing to decide from reading at forums

If it was me, and you were attractive / fit, id want you too. It would be a great chance to bond and connect, sharing true love.

It's a really bad idea. This is why; when he gets older and wants to start a family or settle down he will probably regret it and maybe even have really bad or ambivalent feelilngs about you. He could write you off as his mother. It's up to you to stay within the "norms of society since you are his mother. When he gets older and decides he wants a normal life he might feel wrong and icky inside and avoid you like the plague.

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but what are your feelings towards him sexually? You don't have to answer if you want but if you aren't wanting sex with him then you shouldn't even consider doing things with him.

Hi I'm 19 and I have some sexual feelings towards my mother sometimes, I know that it's horrible and wrong and I try to repress it but it keeps coming back and it has me feeling horrible about myself :/

I would do whatever you can to avoid it. Maybe you could suggest that your son find a place of his own now and meet other girls so he can have a healthy relationship. Would you be comfortable with your family and friends finding out that you two were sleeping together? Is it worth the risk of potentially losing them over it? Like nowheregirl was saying, it could end up being very uncomfortable for the two of you in the future. If things go bad between you too then you will prob never be able to have a normal mother-son relationship again. Your son will prob end up married with kids some day and you wont want to risk ruining your relationship over sex.