Me: 23 male, engineering college student, research assistant as well as work on weekends. Graduating next year.
I've only had sex once, when I was 18 with gf (later broke up due to college reasons). Since then, I haven't had sex, or any other romantic contact for that matter. Some of this was deliberate, to keep me focused on school.
Lately, I'm growing extremely worried if 1) I'm letting prime years for sexual growth and experiences go by, and 2) most importantly, am I stunting my growth as a person by not really having any sexual experience?
I feel like sex has been a positive influence on the lives of most of my peers, helping them grow one way or the other. Has anyone ever been sexless for a long time? Or have some perspective on this? It's been worrying me since the summer.