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Postby anthro » Mon May 23, 2011 10:04 am

I am a 23 year old white male, I used to watch a lot of ordinary white men/white women porn. But the past 6 months I constantly fantasize and watch only black men/white women porn. And it’s the only time when I look at the guys big dick and feel jealous of his sexual prowess, and how the white women enjoys it. I feel extremely embarrassed of this fantasy and hide it from everyone. Its the only time when fascinated with the big black penis, but don’t desire a relationship with a man. What is really causing this and why, is it a fetish. I still am extremely attracted to women, and love everything about women, but its when a see black men, blonde women porn that I cannot control myself. But am I bi-sexual? bi-curious? What causes this attraction/fascination of a large black penis? Is this strange?
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Re: Addicted to Interracial porn

Postby jasmin » Fri May 27, 2011 7:32 pm

Anthro, maybe you feel threatened by guys who are like that and it's kind of turned into a fetish. It's not the end of the world if you're a little bi-curious anyway.
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Re: Addicted to Interracial porn

Postby winginitx » Mon Aug 22, 2011 3:03 pm

I too gravitate towards this fetish, and what I come to learn is that it has to do with our self-image and self-worth - how we feel about ourselves and what value we place on ourselves. The fetish is only a symptom of the greater emotional signal.

Search out with a therapist issues that revolve around your feelings of self-worth and self-identity.
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Re: Addicted to Interracial porn

Postby AlexJ » Mon Aug 22, 2011 11:24 pm

you might not be a bi right now but understand that staying with this habit can lead to it. A lot of porn addicts will start hetero and start by looking at very soft/mild content but once they get too into it, it ends up with hardcore, fetish stuff and it can change a person's sexual orientation.

Obviously in your case, if you start questioning your sexual orientation, chances are, you are starting to feel this. You have to get help and stop your porn addiction before it leads to this.

Most people get help when its too late. Right now, the damage isnt done yet so dont wait until it is.
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Re: Addicted to Interracial porn

Postby rayeanne » Sat Aug 27, 2011 6:39 am

[b]I just joined this site. This is my first post. I'm a female sex addict and I too am, and have been since I was a teenager, really turned on by interracial porn. Same way. Black guy and white girl. I'm white too. There's something about it and the size but just even seeing the skin color so drastically different is hot to me. I don't get why. But I do know it started when I saw the movie Jungle Fever when I was young.

I don't think your bi because of that. I love men but get turned on watching women and even their bodies. [/b]
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Re: Addicted to Interracial porn

Postby Darrin » Sun Aug 28, 2011 7:35 pm

My experience with porn (and I have seen a lot) is that it's the worst thing that has happened to sex ...EVER. It creates unrealistic expectations of what sex is and can be. And this penis size thing is very stereo-typed. I have seen large and small on ALL ethnic races. Also, if a man is well endowed then the porn industry will put him in videos and everyone thinks he is "normal" but there is no normal. Don't base your real life sexual experiences on porn or else you're in for a world of disappointment. The trick is finding a partner who is compatible with you which means, at the core, they enjoy the same as you do. There will always be some differences but that's actually good. But when you're with someone who is totally incompatible, sex will always be difficult and forced. You first have to be comfortable in your own skin and not be afraid to know and voice what you like in sex. Or at least this has worked for me :wink:
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