First of all, if this DID happen, you need to know that looking at porn and masturbating for a guy is often just a perfunctory exercise. A way to relieve sexual stress. A way to take the "burden" upon oneself rather than constantly hitting up the woman in the relationship for relief, thereby causing fights, guilt in the woman when she's "not in the mood" or like now, where you're going through some medical issue. IT IS NOT "CHEATING"!!! I cannot stress that enough! It's simple fantasy. Everyone has right to it.011085 wrote:PLEASE HELP!! I found this website this morning and I am desperate for some advice/guidance... I don't want to embarrass my husband so i can't ask family or friends for advice. We have been married for just over a year and we have been together for about 7 years. We have an amazing sex life and wonderful marriage. I'm usually a very very deep sleeper NOTHING wakes me! But I have been on medication for a few days now and I struggle to fall asleep. Last night our bed started shaking and my husband started moaning and grunting...I was so shocked and didn't want to embarrass him so I pretended to be fast asleep. After about an hour of him pleasuring himself and me feeling sick to my stomach and on the verge of tears I turned over to let him know i'm awake and found him on his cell phone watching porn and touching himself!!! I then confronted him as I switched on the lamp...wide awake he says to me " what am i talking about? he was fast asleep!" I then took his phn to prove my point and he left the page he was on...having no proof and no iphone boffin I had no evidence...but i'm not crazy I know what I had seen. he then told me I had a bad dream and I must go back to bed. I feel hurt and almost cheated on...I don't want to sound arrogant but i'm an attractive woman...Why does he have to act like a psycho sick pervert while his wife is lying next to him! I feel so insecure and I will always wonder if he is thinking of porn stars while we are making love. PLEASE HELP ME...if anyone has advice on how to deal with this. He denies it and laughs at me when I wanted to talk about it this morning and he says I just had a nightmare. I am so disgusted in him and heart broken!
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