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Preteen Abuse

Postby jack1953 » Sat Nov 13, 2010 12:03 am

I've been involved on the healing side of both ends of the spectrum. The victims and the abusers. I've sat in support groups for the last 9 years and have been privy to just about every situation you could possibly imagine. One thing that I just can't wrap my head around, is how males can be sexually attracted to preteens. Even though it is wrong and there is no excuse for any kind of molestation or abuse, I can understand how a male can be 'attracted' to a 'physically' developed female of any age. Most of the testimonies I've heard of males in that situation have the common denominator of not seeing the victims as children during the act of molestation. But the preteen and younger attraction just doesn't compute for me whatsoever.
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Re: Preteen Abuse

Postby jasmin » Sat Nov 13, 2010 6:45 pm

It's not just males who do it. You're right, it doesn't make sense.
Is everything ok with you?
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Re: Preteen Abuse

Postby jack1953 » Sat Nov 13, 2010 9:28 pm

jasmin wrote:It's not just males who do it. You're right, it doesn't make sense.
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I'm 57 and my life, marriage, and family is better now than it has ever been. I was on the perp side of pornography 10 years ago. My crime/sin brought me to my knees, accepted and surrendered to Christ and have never looked back. He's transformed me and my family better than it was before.
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Postby jasmin » Sun Nov 14, 2010 6:52 pm

I'm glad you're a better person and that you're doing well!
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