Due to our economic state, my brother, mother, and I used to share a bed. When i discovered to masterbate, around 12-13(i'm not entirely sure when this happened), i used to masterbate very secretley and quietly next to them, which means I would masturbated very slowly. I slept on the extreme far end of a king or queen size bed. I don't remember if i ever ejaculated in bed. i would go to the bathroom and do this. I know this is wrong, but i don't know what i should do about it. I am now 22. And this is the biggest shame in my life. I woke my brother once doing it. I feel so depressed writing this and do not know where to turn for help. I have my own bed and masterbate in private now.
I should also mention, since I think this is extremely relevant, my father was not in the picture around this time because he was in jail for molesting my aunt, who is four years older than me. He did not molest her during this time period, but when I was about 2 or 3 and my aunt was around 7 or 8 my dad used to molest my aunt or molested her once. My parents where going through a divorce, and my aunt must have repressed the whole indecent until the divorce.
Do you guys believe that the latter paragraph is an explanation for the former?
Am I making a big deal out of this issue, can this just be seen as a comedic moment in my life, illustrating my innocence. Or this a issue that will eventually affect my life.
To be honest. I seldom think about this now, but when It does come up, i feel pretty bummed and ashamed.