by Nikky » Sat Jun 11, 2016 6:04 pm
Greetings, I've been in therapy for the last 7 years because of an abusive, narcissistic father. I come from a big, Greek family, and It took me a long time to see that my parents , particularly my father (mom just watched the abuse and did nothing) were abusive, unloving people. Within the last month, thru EMDR, a memory of sexual abuse is starting to emerge. It turns out, that at the age of 7, the memory I have of myself abusing my barbie is not exactly correct. It turns out that the barbie is actually me being abused. The memory is vague but when it emerges, I panic. So much so that the memory goes back into hiding. Does anyone have experience with the emergence of repressed memories? I would love to know more about what you went thru. Right now I go thru body memories where I feel incredibly guilty, ashamed, really terrible - but there is still no narrative. I also have a great deal of anger towards both of my parents. Any thoughts or advice on this front would be greatly appreciated.