My gf told me about her being raped by her uncle when she was young. few month ago. last week she went into more details after i asked questions.
this is what she told me
she lived in another country with her uncle /aunt and cousins
from age 8 to 14 her cousin and uncle molested her everything but anal she said on a daily basis
the cousin in hes 20s and uncle was in his 50s the son didnt know that the father was doing her too
but the father knew the son was
uncle would molest her 2x a week
the cousin she said was regular
the only break she had was on her period
she left and came back to usa ..thats how it ended
the last day she was there the uncle molested her
i can not imagine this... daily basis for 7 years?
the last time she saw her uncle was 2 years ago. shes 31 now so she was 29 at a funeral
and she said she kissed him hello and him to her.. and i asked her why in the world she would do that
and she said she didnt want to be disrespectful and cause a scene ..cause she said everyone was greeting everyone
and the cousin is a facebook friend..i asked her why in the world would she have him as a facebook friend and she said that she added him by mistake cause she thought it was someone else and that she didnt know how to block she said.. i was like just press unfriend...she said he sent her a private message saying that we need to pick up where we left off and a pic of himself
this is a women i am thinking about being with... to hear all this just makes me go crazy
i picture how it was for her and how they treated her. and picture what was going on.
they basically had her as a human toy for them to play with all day long every day
it almost doesnt sound real...made up.. but i believe her
she said she got used to it and when they would come to her room she wouldnt mind it was a escape from reality she said... she said her aunt would beat her.. its like she was more concerned with the beatings
i called a hotline for help for myself i felt everything ...and i think the person at the hotline did more harm to me. she asked me has she had other boyfriends and sexual relations before me and i said yes. she i was ok with it..i said yeah.. she told me to view this as a sexual relationship in her past like the others something that happened before me and her
thats where my brain really went haywire . cause im thinking were they better then me did she did she climax more and better. who had the bigger penis.. did they give it to her rougher does she think of them when shes with me ..is she over them.. ect ect ect all the questions i think of any other guy whos been with my gf.
she was 14 when she went back home..if she didnt go back home when was it going to stop? till she left for college? how does someone let her uncle and cousin both do as they please to her for 7 years.
i know it started at 8 but 14 shes still letting it happen daily? it was willingly..... they did this to another cousin before her dont know the details.
she doesnt want to do anything or talk to anyone..... this has damaged me and i feel second hand abuse.
any comments to the damage that this has caused her? ive read people tell there story how it happened to them and they liked it and wanted more. ive always thought it was made up a lot of them , till i heard hers..
i see how this has effected her from the guys shes picked afterwards and her relationships .
i would like to know the details for some reason.. all the possible details. i would rather know then have my brain wonder.i dont know why it wonders but it does....
i think she should talk to someone...it been 20 year almost and i think she should find her cousin and whoever else they might have got and report it and tell everyone.