Hello,
I was molested when I was 3 or 4 years old by my brother's grandfather. It happened in front of my step dad. I'm not sure if my step dad was aware of what was happening to at the moment. I was really scared and confused during and after the molestation. I told my mom immediately what happened to me, but she really didn't tell me anything and didn't try to do anything about the situation. I basically was left to deal with the issue on my own. Then I was molested by a neighbor older girl. I can write a lot how it affected me as a child but here is how it's affecting me today.( I'm 29 years old.) Just 5 month ago I was blessed with my little angel daughter! I'm so happy that I have her! I waited for her for so long. We had troubles to conceive.
I have two major problems:
1) I can't trust my husband around my baby girl ( the trust issue started in hospital right after I had my baby- I thought that all nurses would hurt her or molest her). Now I'm accusing my husband of molesting my baby even though I don'd have any proof.
2) I have confused feelings toward my baby girl. I love her soooo much! I can't understand why sometimes I feel something like (scared to clean her vagina, afraid I'm awaking her body; avoiding touching her nipples; or even worse I get something like excitement. I would never consider to molest my child, it wouldn't matter to live then. I exist for this child. I want to be the best mom I can be! What's happening to me? Please help me?
Thank you