I'm sorry if this kind of a thread already exists somewhere. If so, please post a link here.
There is a lot written here about this unique combination of npd and spd, which is also very rare.
There is a lot written about npd in love and spd in love.
But what about comorbid npd and spd in love?
Npd can't truly love as far as I got it, I might be wrong though, but that's a general rule, right?
But spd can love. So what is puzzling me is, how does a love relationship look like with npd and spd in the same person? Can they really love?
I thought my ex had npd, a covert npd. But hoovering and many other things were missing. I couldn't hate him or blame him, because he didn't discard me to enjoy it. He needed time for himself. I didn't understand or knew he was spd too so I ruined our relationship by pushing for more. Until I went no contact because I thought he was playing with me. But he wasn't fully because spd wouldn't do it?
Is it possible someone with npd and spd comes back but in a genuine way? I'm ok with spd, but I want nothing to do with npd if you see what I mean. It's confusing to me to understand love in his eyes.
Any experiences or opinions would be great. Thanks!