INFJmind19 wrote:I've been on and off with a female schizoid but now it looks like we might just be friends for good now. I'm trying to be less persistent and not seem needy but someone she used to like has just wormed his way back in to her life although she says they are just friends and don't want anything from him. The more I tell her not to get involved with him it seems to push them closer and us further. He is much older than both of us so I know what he is doing and is playing it very well.
almost made my gag reflex go off. whether she is schizoid or not, she sounds uninterested in you. she is likely compelled to tell you things like "they are just friends" because of your history together (even if she claims she would be honest). also, the idea that you're pushing them together is ridiculous. she is done with you, she is talking to another man and they are getting closer. YOU don't factor into that. the only thing you're effecting by making comments about him is your friendship with her. lastly, you come off as sour. specifically: " he is much older than both of us so I know what he is doing and is playing it very well"....really? grow up and move on. you won't even be talking to her much longer as a friend if you keep this up.