so im a schizoid with ASP tendencies.
its not that im bad at socializing (im rather good actually), bad looking (im proud of my 8 pack), or lazy (i like to think i have a good work ethic), its just that i prefer not to, and ill list my main two reason below.
1) simple disgust. i don't like most people. either because they are stupid, or they simply cant think for themselves. for me intelligence, self reliance, emotional discipline, and a good work ethic are everything. if someone doesn't have at least two of these traits, i generally see them as a waste of my time. people who will never intrigue me, help me achieve my goals, or truly control their lives. therefore since i see them as infinitely inferior to myself, i can never truly treat them as equals. only as pawns to be used.
2) fear/paranoia. don't really know which one. but i have never been able to "open up" to people because im afraid that they will either use that info against me someday, or just run away screaming. because of this i can never get close to someone, and therefore i can never receive the same amount of support from relationships as normal people, and it becomes stressful and difficult to keep everything important about myself from friends/lovers. its just much more un-stressful, cost effective, and easy to ditch relationships altogether and rely mostly on myself.
TL;DR: i don't like people and don't trust them, so i don't socialize. why don't you?