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nadadura wrote:Is there a name for this?
xandrew245x wrote:I need to vent.
I was with a girl since May of 2010, I met her at school, and fell head over heals in love with her. Just recently (June of this year) She broke it off. I am pretty sure she has Borderline personality disorder, she was abused as a child by her stepmother and her mother had tried to commit suicide.
When I first met her it was absolutely amazing, she seemed to be into everything I was, the sex was great and crazy, we talked for hours, we spent every day together. I noticed a massive change in her about 7 or 8 months into the relationship. She became extremely depressed, angry, lazy and mean. She was extremely manipulative, and played me like a puppet, and I just let he because I didn't see anything wrong. She would always try to get everyone else to do things for her so she didn't have to. She lied all the time, she spent our money like no bodies business, and if I would say to her about watching what she spent, I was the awful person ,and I bought what ever I want and spent whatever money I wanted, it was a huge guilt trip. She couldn't take care of herself, her car, or any of her personal responsibilities. She had pets, and I had to take care of them or else they would have died. We often got into very heated arguments, I can remember on a couple of occasions she actually got violent with me, but most of the time she would play the major victim, run and lock herself in a room, threaten to cut/kill herself and love it when I sat there and begged for her not to do it. She verbally and emotionally abused me all the time, constantly putting me down, keeping me exactly where she wanted me. I tried so hard from the start to get her to go see a doctor, but she would not go, and I couldn't make her. She finally went to see a doctor once her mother got involved, and all the doctor did was prescribe her some medicine and diagnosed her with bipolar, she went back 2 or 3 times, and stopped going back, she missed her last appointment and never made another.
The worst thing she did was want to marry me, which I found out was just a show. She always had to be the center of attention. I found all of this out after she left me. A month or so before we were to be married she ran back to her ex behind my back, confessed her love to him, and begged for him back, she also kissed him multiple times. She told him she would call all of the wedding if he took her back. It infuriates me, because I had second thoughts about it, and she kept talking me back into it, I didn't even want to cancel it, I just wanted to postpone it a year or so. So we got married, 2 months after, we got into an argument, she flipped out, and said she was going to get an annulment. Once she cooled down, everything was fine, it was like it never happened. The last time, she went and hung out with a group of friends, mostly guys, the next day after confronting her about her lying to me about who she was talking to, she told me she wanted to divorce. She then continued going out every single night and staying out very late, hanging out with the boy she ultimately left me for, but still denies. She also kissed this boy, had inappropriate conversations with him, sent him indecent pictures and even spent the night, and came home with a hickie, denying that anything happened. She also just told me recently that she only loved me in her twisted and ###$ up way and she learned in her childhood.
I am so angry and hurt by her!
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