I'm 25
My boyfriend who's 31 won't help me with my disability payment like providing his income details so I can't live with him and have to live with my parents because he doesn't support Me
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ameliaem wrote:I'm 25
My boyfriend who's 31 won't help me with my disability payment like providing his income details so I can't live with him and have to live with my parents because he doesn't support Me
ameliaem wrote:I'm 25
My boyfriend who's 31 won't help me with my disability payment like providing his income details so I can't live with him and have to live with my parents because he doesn't support Me
hrsecrazzy wrote:I just want to vent.
be in but I'm trapped. I have to do this just long enough to get my head on straight and my life in order. .
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-- Sat Feb 02, 2013 6:11 am --
hi.. every one.. Most men want to meet a Escort or a model and don\'t really care about the disorders when it comes to feelings.
joeblink182 wrote:Some help or advice would be great.
I'm 27 and my girlfriend is 41. We have been together 7 years and we have one child together and 3 older children from a previous relationship. We met online and I began travelling long distance to meet up. It then started emerging that her online personality etc had been a big part of her life since her and her kids dad broke up. She seemed to spend her entire life on MySpace and dating forums etc, meeting up with blokes and talking online etc. she seemed to relish this "milf" tag and made it a big deal. Then when we met all this seemed to blow over for a while. Since then it's just been downhill ever since.
We have fallen out and argued over absolutely everything but she insists on being right about everything. The double standards are just unbelievable. She cheated on me one night but insisted it was just a kiss. Then I went out one night shortly after and ended up doing the same and she found out. This was the spark that lit the touch paper and since then it's been a nightmare, despite me trying to change and having many personal issues to overcome. She is aggressive and bullying and feels that it's ok to scream and shout and threaten me when she is angry and she will use that if she cannot put a valid point across or knows I'm in the right.
She is always on Facebook etc etc and has constant people talking to her and inboxing her. Friend requests she just leaves rather than deleted or ignores. Like she is waiting for me to be out of sight before she then talks to them. She seems obsessed by male attention and is always posting pictures with cleavage showing and what not. Then when I try and say my piece on it being too "full on" and disrespectful to me she flies off the handle saying "why be like that instead of being happy for me getting compliments and people liking them?" "Why can't you be proud of me" she had blokes on Instagram and one in particular likes every single picture she puts up and it was "he's happily engaged it's nothing like that". Now all of a sudden him and his girlfriend have broken up yet she maintains she has never spoken to him?? So I sit there wondering how she's knows all this if its just a random guy who likes her photos?
Everything just seems to turned towards me and she almost wants to rub my nose in it. I have suffered with a gambling addiction and short while after, she admitted she met a guy in town and went back to his house on two seperate occasions. She maintains they never had sex and it was just drunk kissing but she blamed it on me having a gambling problem and she done it because she was so mad at me for gambling my money away. Everything gets turned on me like I'm making her do all this. I'm so low at the moment because I tried to break though the bad stuff and turn it into a new chapter yet she point blank refuses to acknowledge anything she has done wrong and refuses to make any effort and make changes herself. She still has loads of people messaging her and all that and I'm convinced she is talking to them too. We live in a small town where everybody knows everyone's business after 24 hours but I was completely unaware (even though I was still living in my home town a while away) that she was going to somebody's house and doing stuff with him. It seems she has everything worked out to a tee so she doesn't get caught.
I'm convinced she is still doing everything and more behind my back and she convinces herself that she is not doing wrong. She never appreciated anything I do (Egypt last year for her birthday, Florida this year, birthdays and Christmas and doing everything for her and the kids, including hers) but I get nothing in return unless she wants to start up a fight or accuse me of some completely random crap (if I get in 5 mins later than normal she's adamant I've sneaked off for an affair of some sort).
I just cannot understand how someone could be like this and get away with everything like she's untouchable. I have done wrong but I've tried to learn from my mistakes and do my best but she just takes advantage of my good nature and does the complete opposite??
What can I do?
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