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venting about people

Postby Brumble » Tue Jun 19, 2012 1:24 am

    I personaly am not to fond of being male, and can not stand most males, but there is some crap i'm really sick of and I need to vent.
    There are some very sweet sensitive men that get treated bad by women in this society, because I guess it's normal to be treated like spoil'ed good's if you're a man that's become tiresome to some woman, it goes on with both sides I guess, but it's easier to throw away some ugly guy and get a new one than it is to throw away a pretty face.
    each side has it's own preverse reasons. May be i'm just sick! of the whole human race, how people behave socialy, how complicated it has to be just to have one friend and not be questioned like a criminal or not have you're own fears from the other person.
    Just because I happen to be male! docent mean that i'm out to get you for sex or for you're pretty face or to use you like a floor mat! and it certainly gives you no right to treat me like a kids dating game, shall i dump him or keep him, friend or not i'm not a game piece! to be toy'ed with, I have feelings and concerns two! it's just sickening how many years i've tried to have one friend and it fails. > :x \ :(
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Re: venting about people

Postby masquerade » Tue Jun 19, 2012 2:20 pm

I wonder what has happened in your past, to create your present mindset? Speaking to a therapist can help you to discover where your thoughts, feelings, and patterns came from. Things can change for you if you really want them to, and speaking to a therapist could really help.
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Re: venting about people

Postby Brumble » Tue Jun 19, 2012 4:10 pm

    I see a tharapist once a week and some times once every couple week's. I guess being rejected so often make's me think negitively about others, sinse i'm sick of beating up on my self for not being good enough it's only natural to shove others away before the pattern happens again, still hurts the same.
    It's like I have two personalities, one docent give a hoot about others and wish'es they would all die, the other get's upset crying wondering why no one likes it, i'm about in the middle right now kinda leaning to the fu side but also wishing i had one friend to call up or to hang out with.
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Postby masquerade » Tue Jun 19, 2012 6:09 pm

Please continue with the therapy. It's important that your therapist helps you to process the wide range of emotions that you're feeling right now. Sometimes people are afraid of strong emotion, but it exists for a purpose, and in the safety of a therapy session, expressing, understanding, processing and feeling these emotions can enable a person to begin to heal. Your therapist should take you at a safe pace, and not rush things.

Something happened to you in your past to create your feelings in the present, and your therapist can help you to make some sense of these events and your reactions to them.

Please remember that if a person rejects you, it doesn't mean that there is anything wrong with YOU. It speaks more of the dynamics that are occurring, and the person's own past and issues. Because of your own issues in your past, it could be possible that subconsciously you are recreating events and dynamics, and in doing so, you're coming into contact with the very type of person that perhaps you would have otherwise have avoided, if your past circumstances had been different. Your therapist can help you with this.
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Re: venting about people

Postby Brumble » Wed Jun 20, 2012 6:17 pm

Thank you. Blah i'm really confused about every thing! today. I guess i'll be ok. : \
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Re: venting about people

Postby masquerade » Wed Jun 20, 2012 9:55 pm

Feel free to vent and post on here. It might help
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