Just going to keep this post pretty straight forward. Should you tell someone if they're hurt you? The person in mind said that he didn't want to hurt me after something had happened between us, and he said that we could talk about it after. Moving forward, I had made attempts to reach out to him, and it was basically like talking to a wall, he wasn't giving me much of anything. Eventually he told me what I needed to hear, but that didn't exactly make me feel better, and it took almost a month for him to talk leaving me to feel like I wasn't worth an explanation or worth anything. Since then it's been a little over a month, and I don't think he knows if he hurt me at all. Several times I've said to myself 'I wish he knew how much he hurt me'. No, this would not make a difference in how he's treated me in the past 2 months, and we'll probably never talk again since he's moving away, but I feel like he should know how he made me feel. I don't expect anything from him by telling him this, but I think if he actually didn't want to hurt me and did, he should know why so maybe he can avoid doing this to someone else in the future.
Thoughts? Should I tell him that he hurt me?