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I don't know what to do...

Postby ItsMee » Sun Sep 07, 2014 6:03 am

I am madly in love with my boyfriend and we have been dating for almost two years now. We have both always been so close and so in love, but recently I have become so overly attached to him and I think it's starting to cause him to back off and distance himself. Everyone tells me I need to distance myself too and not make myself so available because coming off as too attached will cause him to run away, but I can't do that. I CANT distance myself. I don't want to distance myself. I can't keep myself busy long enough when we are away and I'm afraid anytime I text him or complain that I miss him that it will annoy him and make him lose interest in me. I feel like anything I do, whether I attach myself too much or whether I try to distance myself too much, I'm going to ruin our relationship. I am constantly in pain thinking and worrying. I love him so much and I worry that maybe i'm causing him to love me less. How can I love one person SO much? I hurt. I hurt so much. My head feels like it's going to explode everyday. I just want to be with the person I love, why can't it be that simple? Why must this be so hard like a game?
I love him.
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Re: I don't know what to do...

Postby xdude » Wed Sep 10, 2014 6:05 pm

Hi ItsMee,

Here is another possible way to look at the situation -

Yes game playing is not so great, but a harder question to consider?

Is it possible to be too attached/dependent on someone? I don't mean just because it may cause him to run, and back-off (though that's possible), but for your own sake and sense of happiness?
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