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Postby NCx » Sun May 12, 2013 6:37 am

Hello,

I'm new to this forum.
When I was 13 I was raped and abused, a friend and myself by two adults (husband and wife), I also think they were molesting their son too.
It has been going on for 2 months and I should have did something about it.
I'm 22 and it still effects my life, it gave me mental disorders, lack of emotional contact etc etc.
I don't trust males really anymore, it ruined my life.
I can't have a normal relationship with someone because they don't really understand why I act a certain way.
To this day I still think it's my fault because I've should of done something about it.
Anyways, I'm looking for someone to talk to who has similar problems like myself.
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Re: Rape

Postby salted lipstick » Sun May 12, 2013 1:49 pm

Hello NCx and welcome to the forum.

I'm sorry to hear you were raped and abused when you were younger. It's not your fault that you didn't do anything about it, you were young and probably weren't sure what you should do. You might have been scared too about what your abusers might do if you told. So it's not your fault that you didn't tell. They should never have put you in that position in the first place. As adults, it was their job to act responsibly and not abuse you.

Have you ever told anyone about this abuse before? Like a therapist maybe?
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Re: Rape

Postby NCx » Mon May 13, 2013 12:44 pm

Yeah, I've talked to a therapist for months now.
But it doesn't seem to be helping.
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Re: Rape

Postby salted lipstick » Wed May 15, 2013 6:33 am

I'm sorry to hear it doesn't seem to be helping you. It is certainly a really good thing that you have been committed to trying therapy.

How do you feel about your therapist? Do you get along well with him/her? Do you feel like he/she is listening to you? What type of therapy are you doing?
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