Has that been your experience?though if you love the woman who gave birth to it i think that that makes all the difference.
markspringer100 wrote:I will certainly have a family one day as there's nothing I want more. Although as a gay man the trick of 'loving the mother' may be difficult :p The important factor is loving the child, and how any parent can not love their child is beyond me.
markspringer100 wrote:Ultimately if in doubt, don't. Because like you say you'd be gambling with a child's wellbeing and that will NEVER stack up against your own desires to have a family, no matter how strong they are.
markspringer100 wrote:Hope that helps, although you got ages to think about it (unless you are straight/bi and don't use condoms :p in which case, start using condoms :p)
markspringer100 wrote:I know that whilst I lapse into dirty day dreams and fantasies I will never act on it so I feel comfortable to start a family when I reach that age.
AlanCL wrote:I have talked to a few dads that are pedophiles and they seem to be better dads that nons because they know the effect that child sexual abuse could have on there children and some have said that they have felt nothing remotely sexual towards there own children, so perhaps that would happen to you. I have heard various view points from pedophiles that have children and all are different.
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