Onlysleep and Wolfparade: Im thinking of you guys, just want you to know that. All the important questions you ask wont be ignored forever. The way paedophilia is dealt with reveals a bizarre human emotion that sex, unless they're involved, is disgusting. Paedophile or not, the ones that do care have a built-in program that helps us identify harm; when a person looks distressed, in pain, upset or sad. This is why there are so many guys out there, with this label of paedophile, that are so unfairly miss-judged. That, is an act of inhumanity, and we will win hearts and minds in the future. There will be a more levelled approach when the hysterical screaming stops, and the civilized debate starts. This will have to happen. Think about writing your words to others though. Mental health profession, your health system, politicians you may have respect for. You're talking sense and you will be helping ease the suffering of many adults to be. Child sexuality is inadvertantly becoming criminalized. Who could call that "caring"? There will be a change in the tide soon.
So many people i spoken to on line, say to me: "I didnt know that, i thought this. You have made me think. Why did i think that paedophile only described a child abuser, when acutally, it also describes the attraction too?" There's your discrimination, but its only ignorance. Keep spreading the word, but look after yourselves in the process. Peace!