Do you ever fantasize about raping someone ?

A lot of women (and some men I guess) have fantasies about being raped.

Do any men (or women) here have fantasies about raping someone else ?

Having fantasies like this doesn't mean you're a rapist of course, they're just fantasies.

I know I have had fantasies where I was getting raped and I have also had fantasies where I was raping a cute, tiny girl (which is weird because I'm a straight woman).

Rape fantasy is built into aspects of gay life, and I wonder if this is because gay culture is less ashamed of itself. One of the most popular videos on the porn channel gay boys tube is called abducted twink with the description "schoolboy gets raped". One of the most popular series of gay porn videos by the french company cadinot often had young guys pretending to be schoolboys and situations pretending to be raped. So some gay men and some women fantasize about being raped, but I should imagine fantasies about raping are more common that people would admit.

No, I can't say that I have. I think of sexual intimacy as a form of affection.

Even I thought of someone I hated, to fantasize about raping them is a compliment as it confirms that they're attractive to me.

Maybe some rape play could be fun.

I kind of like the ideas of some accidentally touching of a women. Especially grabbing her breasts through her jumper and she doesn't expect it but only if I had impunity or something.

No. Even the thought of that disturbs me.

No.

Hmmm... This question is... wow. I'm feeling like about to do a "huge" confession, but hopefully I'll feel relieved.

See, I'm not such a fan of BDSM, but I do like some form of psychological-hurt or "hummilliation" (I think the later term "fits better")... for either a girlfriend (preferably prepubescent, duh), or myself, oddly. It's just hard to explain. My hottest fantasy about this is in special is to get some "private" part from body be seen in public, again, either from a girl or mine (and, preferably in front of girls >_<), or, *trigger warning* to see a little girl, from around 10, with a short skirt who forgot (or didn't purposely) to put her panties, and then other boys realize it and she either gets horny or ashamed. Then the "good" part is the reaction from the rest being cruel at the situation.

Don't get me wrong: That's purely sexual fantasy, and it's not that I have plans for doing so. Also I'm totally against bullying or any similar practices.

EDIT: Fixing grammar/redaction.

I have fantasies about raping and sexually assaulting girls. Those fantasies tend to be most prominent when I'm in a good mood and my ego can handle the implicit rejection involved in the fantasy.

One common element to my particular non-con fantasies is that the line is never blurred or dubious. Either everyone is happy and on-board even if they're pretending not to be, or the victim is brutally forced, tricked, blackmailed, humiliated or otherwise subjected to extreme nonconsensual unpleasantness. There never comes a time in the fantasy where the victim starts to enjoy or appreciate the act.

Generally, my rape fantasies either take on a quasi-avenging pattern, targeting girls who had done something wrong, or they take place in an environment where I'm above consequences or censure, evil dictator territory.

As I have a firm ability to separate fantasy from reality, I have no shame for engaging in such fantasies.

There was a small period of time in my life when the notion of rape in fantasy would have some "allure," but I found out quickly that it was more compulsive in nature than tantalizing. It quickly lost its luster and became repulsive. Most all of my fantasies involve visual notions (boys streaking, nudism, and the like), or some "consensual" thing, where a boy comes on to me or is a "willing" participant of a sex act. (Of course, from a legal standpoint, boys are never considered willing participants in such matters, but victims of "rape.") I suppose, if one were to be overly general about one's definition of rape, you could say I fantasize about that; but I don't believe that that's what you mean, and I would not call those "rape fantasies." More often, I have fantasized about being raped, but these are almost always homosexual in nature. Girls or women are really never the objects of my lust per se, but they have insinuated themselves into my fantasy life—more or less as props for the "story line," where the objects are male. I would feel guilty if females ever became the objects, and I have an inherent aversion to such things, owing almost exclusively to my inbuilt, or perhaps culturally acquired, notions of chivalry.

I don''t fantasize about rape. Not at all.
My fantasies are about a consensual relationship with a child.

Gerste wrote:I suppose, if one were to be overly general about one's definition of rape, you could say I fantasize about that

No, the definition of "rape" is simple and clear!

"unlawful sexual intercourse or any other sexual penetration of the vagina, anus, or mouth of another person, with or without force, by a sex organ, other body part, or foreign object, without the consent of the victim."

http://dictionary.reference.com/browse/rape

without the consent of the victim

A consensual sexual act with a child is NOT rape by definition, and to use the word "rape" to describe consensual pedophilia is an offense towards people who were really raped!

Piranha wrote:I don''t fantasize about rape. Not at all.
My fantasies are about a consensual relationship with a child.

Gerste wrote:I suppose, if one were to be overly general about one's definition of rape, you could say I fantasize about that

No, the definition of "rape" is simple and clear!

"unlawful sexual intercourse or any other sexual penetration of the vagina, anus, or mouth of another person, with or without force, by a sex organ, other body part, or foreign object, without the consent of the victim."

http://dictionary.reference.com/browse/rape

without the consent of the victim

A consensual sexual act with a child is NOT rape by definition, and to use the word "rape" to describe consensual pedophilia is an offense towards people who were really raped!

There are problems with that definition. It erases the majority of male rape victims, since envelopment rather than penetration is the tactic generally used by female rapists against male victims.