by BrotherHobo » Fri Dec 19, 2014 7:08 pm
There are very few places where someone who has a different point of view about non-mainstream sexual preferences can talk about his or her feelings without being made to feel even more alienated than he or she already feels. If, for example, one looks for a forum on consanguineous sexual relationships (incest) what you will find is fifty forums dedicated to helping victims of child rapists, victims of child molesters and victims of various kinds of sexual psychopaths, but very few forums where CONSENSUAL, ADULT CONSANGUINEOUS RELATIONSHIPS (NOT CHILD ABUSE) are rationally and intelligently discussed.
Interracial sex? No problem. Homosexual sex? No problem. Sexual relationships where one partner physically abuses and humiliates the other? No problem. Sex with dwarves, sex with "furries," sex with people obsessed with horses, all manner of sexual variants (dare I say, deviant?) but not consanguineous relationships where people just live a regular, normal life, except they are from the same DNA line.
The gay community, in general, is pretty bad about this. Now that they are no longer having sex in bathroom stalls at a public park, they want to close the door on other sexual minorities. (Oh, sure, homosexual sex is "normal," but incest? Eeeewwww. Disgusting.)
Homosexual sexual intercourse was illegal in my state until 1968. That wasn't that long ago. Gay boys and lesbian girls are still being shamed and bullied in school about who they are and what they feel attracted to do. Do you think incestuous siblings go around wearing "Incest Pride" t-shirts? Do they accost other people on the street or in bars and force their sexual viewpoint on them? No. They want to be able to live their lives quietly and legally, so that they do not need to fear going to prison for falling in love with each other. Why is that so horrible?
People always bring up child molesters when they speak of incest--fathers who rape their daughters, etc. These people are RAPISTS. They would be criminals regardless of whether or not they were related to their victims. Rape is rape is rape. It doesn't matter who the victim is. The issue isn't DNA, the issue is age of consent and legal consent.
The vast majority of incestuous relationships never show up on anybody's radar. They conduct their lives without anybody ever knowing. Brothers and sisters, cousins, uncles and nieces, nephews and aunts, fathers and CONSENTING, ADULT daughters, mothers and sons--nobody ever hears about them because their relationships are conducted in secret. ONLY THE PATHOLOGICAL RELATIONSHIPS EVER SHOW UP ON RADAR. They rest of them do not consider their relationships to be a problem. Except, of course, that the State will gladly send them both to prison if they are discovered.
How is this promoting a political agenda? Does anybody ever accuse gay people of pursuing a political agenda because they don't want to be shamed, bullied or bashed? I do not see how getting the government out of the marriage business is so harmful. People love who they love. We should leave them all alone about it.