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Re: [HELP] Why do I admire dead strangers?

Postby Graveyard76 » Thu Nov 28, 2013 9:33 am

Sorry to hear about your friend's friend, ruffledees.

I've known quite a few people who've committed suicide down the years, and I agree with your friend who has told you not to play with fire. It's natural to try to empathise with people who have done this, and to try and understand what they were thinking, and how they could have been helped, but if you're depressed yourself then I'd imagine it's potentially like putting out a fire with petrol.
"Anybody remotely interesting is mad in some way or another." - The 7th Doctor.

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Postby ruffledees » Tue Apr 22, 2014 1:36 am

ruffledees wrote:22-yo drowned in water sports 4 days ago


Coroner court hearing of this guy is in the morning - or in exact, being held right now. At the bus stop, I was at the crossroad between going to work and applying emergency leave for the hearing.

Eventually, I forced myself to office, but I feel that part of me is not here. I am looking forward to a closure in the accident (I am into the same sports as well) and some visual/verbal details of the dead discovery.

I just keep telling myself not to get trapped into dead people's lives. It is hard.
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