What's "bad" is when the parasympathetic nervous system is activated (fight, flight, freeze & seek and hoard); there is adrenaline and cortisol in the blood; there are sensations of urgency, anxiety, anger, self-loathing, guilt....
What is "good" and ok is when the parasympathetic system is disengaged and the the sympathetic nervous system comes into the foreground (tend & befriend); there is oxytocin and vasopressin in the blood; sensations of ease, joy, care,and happiness are experienced...
Depending on if watching dancing girls on YouTube is experienced as fun and touching happiness -- or as an addictive process, determines if the behavior is "acceptable" or not...
sprooglestrewft wrote:I can proudly say that I have no interest in illegal pornography, mostly because I've never been a huge fan of nudity. Non-nude images are much more of a weakness however. This has led to me being banned on another site for linking several times to innocent photographs of little girls in bikinis.
I used to spend hours at night looking for YouTube videos of girls mostly ages 5-12 fooling around in tiny shorts/skirts/bikinis. Some of these images/videos which I have found on totally legal modeling sites are enough to cause me serious arousal, more so than what most nude/illegal images would. Heck, I only have to see their faces sometimes to be enchanted.. and get an erection (especially if their hair is wet. )
The videos on YouTube are becoming easier to find because often the girls themselves are the ones putting them online and other users keep playlists of these videos designed especially for minor attracted people.
Is it acceptable in your opinion to look at these pictures/videos? Is anything acceptable to look at or should anything involving children be avoided? I'm Interested to hear everyone's opinion.
cybergenesis wrote:*removed by mod* People who are sexually attracted to children and spend hours and hours like you admit obsessing over pictures of them for the purpose of masturbation are not popular with the general community. Get help.
rainbowstar wrote:cybergenesis wrote:*removed by mod* People who are sexually attracted to children and spend hours and hours like you admit obsessing over pictures of them for the purpose of masturbation are not popular with the general community. Get help.
I've taken notice of your posting. Minor Attracted Adults are an extremely vulnerable group who need support, not trolling.
I've reported you to the board admins.