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consensual rape fantasy *may trigger*

Postby kismetie » Sat Feb 23, 2013 7:57 am

Okay, so when I like to do something or am out of the "norm" in anyway, I always question is there something wrong with me or did something happen to make me come to the choices I have made.

Nothing traumatic happened to me to start making me like rape fantasies (at least I don't think so).

I'm not alone on this particular fantasy, but it occurred to me for the first time just how old I was when I had my first rape fantasy.

I no doubt think it's weird that I have a rape fantasy fetish and do feel guilty at times, but it is what it is.

I was eleven when I had my first rape fantasy and (oddly enough) it was about my 6th grade social studies teacher, who I think had a thing for underage girls.

So, if you also share this fantasy, how old were you when you developed it?
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Re: consensual rape fantasy *may trigger*

Postby Ollie319 » Thu Mar 07, 2013 4:50 am

Yeah I've had that fantasy before , I've thought about raping a girl I like but never in the way where it's violent or where it hurts them , more in the way where they are enjoying them selves also , but its a fantasy that I'd never attempt because I'd probably end up in jail , but don't worry, your not the first to have this fantasy ,don't beat your self up it's just fantasy
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Postby DancingPuppets » Thu Mar 07, 2013 11:55 pm

When I was 8, I didn't really know much about sex, so when I masturbated I didn't fantasized about the act of sex, but I always made up these scenarios were guys would hurt me (specially on the bladder area) and a lot of people were watching. I think also with 11 or so, I started to have more explicit sex fantasies that contained rape. Hahhahaha now I think back I always took the things into a weird direction when playing with friends ahhhh embarrassing :lol:
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Re: consensual rape fantasy *may trigger*

Postby samsomething » Sat Mar 09, 2013 6:55 pm

I would say a good 45% of users on here are attracted to children and would avoid this question for obvious reasons, xxx
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Re: consensual rape fantasy *may trigger*

Postby minotauros » Sun Mar 10, 2013 5:53 am

As a teenager I've had fantasizies about being raped. Those came to an end when I actually was raped. It wasn't something to fantasize about after that.
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Postby HeartShapedGlasses » Tue Mar 12, 2013 10:13 am

Ever since I started having 'sexual' fantasies, they were of that nature... I put the word sexual in apostrophes because I was so young that I didn't know what sex was, but it was definitely in that sort of sexual atmosphere (this probably makes no sense). I remember my earliest one involved a crowd of people watching and even kind of trying to help me. It wasn't a graphic or distressing one.. it was pretty cartoonish and childish, but you know..

I think that when we're young and we don't really know much about sex (other than maybe a lesson of empty words), we get all our actual images and videos of sex through movies and tv shows. There are rape scenes in quite a lot of movies and I think this might have been what sets it off... I mean, rape scenes in movies are pretty graphic and it shows more than what some 8:30pm love-making (are they actually doing it?) scenes show. So yeah, I first got a 'taste' of what sex was by stumbling on some late night rape scenes in some violent movies, I guess. I know I'm not the only one either.

And I think because I was heaps young, I wasn't knowing enough, or just brave enough to fantasize about me wanting it, or controlling it. Like, the whole 'rape fantasy to escape the blame' kind of thing?
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Postby downwardskyril » Fri Jul 05, 2013 2:24 am

I havent really had the rape fantasy but i have definately felt the need to be raped and have thought about different people raping me but they werent really fantasies
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Re: consensual rape fantasy *may trigger*

Postby tyc » Fri Jul 12, 2013 6:40 pm

pink wrote:I would say a good 45% of users on here are attracted to children and would avoid this question for obvious reasons, xxx

By 'here' do you mean PsychForums or the Paraphilias sub-Forum?
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Re: consensual rape fantasy *may trigger*

Postby xoPinkerbelleox » Sat Jul 13, 2013 11:38 am

It's a fantasy I've had, certainly. Being overpowered, helpless.

If you have a partner you trust not to actually harm you, you can play with the idea. I've done it as part of a D/s scenario. Surprisingly it's one of those fetishes I can tell my friends about and they would agree that it's totally hot. It's ALMOST acceptable depending on your social circle. (I tend to socialize with fetishists/sexually openminded individuals)

I was interested in this idea at a very early age...and I had a fairly decent understanding of what it was as I had been exposed to such things at an early age.
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