The Beholder wrote:i don't think domination belongs in sexuality at all.
Ummmm, then how do you explain BDSM? Domination and sexuality can be quite intertwined.
I guess for me the main question would be: Is this fantasy sexually arousing? And does the fantasy depend on the girl being a pre-teen in order for it to arouse you? What happens if you replace the girl with an older, say twenty-something woman. Does it still work?
If the answer is yes, it must be a pre-teen, then I would say yes to pedophilia. Does this label distress you?
If this remains strictly a fantasy then dream away, I say. We humans fantasize about all kinds of wild things.
That is, unless the identity is upsetting to you, in which case you might seek counseling to try and either resolve the identity, or change your desires (and who knows if that can even be done... I have read plenty of articles that say no, and some that say yes)...
If you are even slightly worried that one day you might want to enact some parts of this fantasy, then you have an issue that will need to be addressed, and better to address it sooner rather than later.