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My shame and bed wetting

I think I have finally found one of the main reason to my shame, bed wetting and the way I was bullied by my dad about it and how he told my friends. It might sound trivial but did anyone else have this when they were a child?
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*TW* Saying goodbye in a decent way - feeling abandonded?

Firts of all, I know every human being is different, personality disorder or not, ‘cause all of us still are individuals. Still I wonder if there are some similarities in the way people with BPD feel in such a situation.
I also asked this on the significant others forum but I also wanted to ask you directly and I hope it doesn’t trigger you. I also ask this because I not only have an exgf ...
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Angry and don't trust anyone anymore?

I don't know where to begin to explain how my life has been. I cannot trust anyone anymore because everyone who tells me that I can tell them about my problems ends up reporting me for gestures of suicide or self-harming, or past sexual encounters. Psychologists and people who lie to me about their identities online report me so I have good reason to be angry and distrustful. I absolutely despise higher authority; especially psychologists ...
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activity that helped me with loneliness

hi, this act has helped me a lot get over my loneliness

growing a plant. i was having lunch in office canteen when a colleague offered a fruit. i ate it but spat the seed out and kept it in tissue paper, brought home, google searched ways to grow a plant out of that seed.

then i put the seed in warm water for a day(overnight), then i put it in a plastic container. i ...
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Any BPDs undertaking study - can u do it?

I have tried study several times in my life. I would dearly like to do a degree - become someone. Problem is I have serious trouble regulating myself in any classroom or exam situation.

I explained to my therapist the other day how an exam may go for me...

10 questions. I will be able to focus for the first 3 questions, get restless for the next 3 but still finish them, up until q6 ...
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No sense of self?

Is it normal for people to lack a sense of self or is this a symptom of mental illness?

I feel like I have to fake everything, and other people notice. I don't act genuine, as my therapist pointed out, and I think some others have noticed too. But I'm not really hiding anything. I have no idea how to act like myself because I feel like I don't have a sense of self. When ...
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I prefer to be alone, I have never self-harmed, I am...

... emotionless, I have no capacity for anger, but I have BPD according to the DSM-IV. Possible flaw in the DSM-IV?

(1) frantic efforts to avoid real or imagined abandonment. No.

(2) a pattern of unstable and intense interpersonal relationships characterized by alternating between extremes of idealization and devaluation I identify with this 100%.


(3) identity disturbance: markedly and persistently unstable self-image or sense of self I identify with this MORE than 100%.
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Crying over nothing

I was diagnosed with BPD in August of this year. I've learned a lot but still have some questions. The biggest question I have is: is it normal to cry over nothing? For example, today I realized Disney on Ice is coming to town and I got really excited and decided to buy tickets for my son and I. Before I bought tickets I watched a couple of YouTube videos of the show to see ...
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Headed inpatient.

Ugh. I hate this. Going inpatient is a pain, but really, it hurts my family and I feel so guilty about it.
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always thinking that i am right

do you have this habit of always thinking that i am right in any argument/discussion?
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