Powerful. Good post. However, I couldn't help but laugh a bit at the last part:
"You were not special. You are not special."
Such a typical denial response. It is very clear that the meaning of the statement is "you were not special to the narc you write about
. you are not special to the narc you write about
." Why do you try to twist it into the writer saying that he is special? The post is not about the writer, it is a message to those on this board claiming they cannot get over their ex-narc, or perhaps how after a narc they are bored by all others?
But, since you bring it up, yes. I don't see many narcs on here crying about how their ex-non hates them. I don't see many saying they can't get over their ex-non. I don't see many saying they aren't happy being with a narc now that they have been with a non. In fact, I don't see any. This is a very one-way street, with one side clearly leading the race. I'd say that this one side, in relation to the topic, is special.
You have been posting for 6 months saying you cannot feel motivated or even happy without your narc. You claim you're glad it's over, and even that you initiated it, but you certainly can't just move on with life, can you? I guess, to you, a narc is special. Why would you of all people come here making such silly comments?