I really appreciate your advice, I really do! However, I still believe that he has this disorder albeit of a lesser degree. Maybe he is coming back to me asking us to be friends because he knows I have money and he needs it desperately. I don't want to get back with him, I just want a way to make him realize that one should not play around with their feelings.
He claims to have a very poor memory, sometimes he repeats the same funny story over and over again not recalling that I've heard it before. his parents had taken him to the psychiatrist once when as a kid and again last year, and he diagnosed him to be a sociopath. He never worries- he feels things will fall into place by themselves. Therefore, he has spent 6 yrs going on to the 7th yr finishing studies that should have taken just 4 yrs. He lied having a degree. When I first confronted him saying that I will still be there if he hasn’t received the degree, he blasted me off in a fit of rage accusing me of not trusting him. 2 months later I approached him with proof and he had no option but to admit it’s true. None of his closest of friends is aware of this fact since it will belittle him in front of them and he can’t bear it. He had warned me, that if I ever told this to any of his friends I should consider this relationship over.
He told me he controls his women by telling them when to meet and where to meet.
He always told me to think before I speak lest he takes offence, therefore I always had to think twice and put my point across as gently as possible otherwise he would throw a fit and call me a retard and ask me to see a therapist. Many a times he has asked me if I had bi-polar disorder. He has violent mood swings. I never criticized him for anything for the first 4 months and everything was fine, but the moment I blamed him for not calling me 7 days at a stretch while I was not in town, he blamed me instead of not keeping track of his well being since he was not well and that he had no phone balance. He twisted and turned every situation in his favor, never taking the blame. He doesn’t care about his family, is rude to them when they call but ‘likes’ dogs.
I have seen him cling to his friends for monetary support, food, a comfortable home etc and drop them like a piece of $#%^ if they ever criticized him for his bad habits. Although he would go crawling right back to them whenever other friends who treat him like a demi god weren’t available.
He chased me for a long time, and treated me like a goddess despite my physical deformity. Wooed me by saying I have the most exotic pair of eyes he has ever seen. During our first official date as a couple he told me he likes to take it slow in the physical department. Although he had 25 one night stands, I was his 2nd official girlfriend. Started his acts of disappearance within 4 months while giving reasons such as- my phone was on silent, I was sleeping etc. But honestly, the relationship felt more like a friends with benefits like situation.
He admits he is a pathological liar- he always bad mouths his ex saying she accused him of impregnating her. How he called up her mother telling her to control her daughter who later flew down to get it aborted. Despite all this can you believe that girl is still friends with him on facebook and otherwise. I think that’s just a tactic to evoke sympathy. I know I fell for it! That girl is still single and is doing very well professionally overseas.
I don’t have an account of the money I spent on him. Not just the booze, but food, clothes...you name it. At times he would just ask for a loan, what he did with it was his business.