Keeping your hoes inline

Since your mother what at age sixteen?

So how do we get your mojo back.

narcbolan wrote:Since your mother what at age sixteen?

Mother caused me to become NPD as a child, she was nothing less than a wretch always pushing me down when I was expressing myself. Because I never felt like I got adequate love from her I learned at an early age to manipulate women into liking me(hence why i was good with women). The second blow was when I fell in love with a girl who i got to the point of wanting to cheat on rich bf and she would follow me to all my games, i figured this out and it crushed me and had bad attachment problems ever sense, because i fell into depression which stripped me of my skills with women.


3 years later, I was unlucky enough to meet another actual ASPD(went to special needs school and we had a few there) whom I fell in love with and she tortured me emotionally(for her own amusement) causing me to become suicidal. I guess that's what you get when you idealize women.

I can resonate with your history. For me it was both my parents who tried to put me down so I end up idealizing both genders.

Looks like your type is strong/independent women.

I kind of felt that was the case Maenad. It's good that you recognise the root of it and make the connection though, especially if you are still quite young. I guess the difficult part is trying to find a different way of processing it.

An NPD man who's main problem relates to his mother is always better off in life when he realises that what happened in childhood is not the fault of other women and stops blaming them. But there is a whole lot of stuff to go through in order to get to that point.

coloroftruthisgray wrote:Well , then by all means ,go destroy the dudes in the club with your mad skills.

You must be a cerebral. FYI you mouthing off facts does gain you attention, it only makes you look like a nerd. Keep that in mind.

Yeah , I'm the nerd because I'm the one hanging out on mental illness forums and instead of admiting my problem I post childish posts like "all the women are dripping for me" and " how do I keep these bitches in line". I am cerebral but I'm not in denial . If you want real help and advice from people try to write posts where you don't pretend like you're the man. That's why I didn't take you seriously.

A little advice ; "taking down that dude" or other NPDs aren't going to help you get better , being honest will. It's freakishly hard and not pleasant , I've learned that in these last couple of weeks but at least I'm learning how to deal with life now. I invite you to try to be honest too. Instead of hiding behind a facade.

Guys guys... both of you are highly amusing.

In my opinion, Narcs can never keep their women in line because they are very women like. I mean Narcs are like women. Narc men that is. Thats why they always struggle in this regard. Women want men, not men that are more feminine than they are. I feel almost sorry for you guys. But then again I am incapable of that. Hope it works out for you. Good luck.

And narc women wear the pants.