Just want to know other people's opinion about my old friend and can we still be friends.
My female friend and I have known each other for 13 years. Recently, I have not spoken to her for 3 years and we just started hanging out. We are both single and date others. We ask each other for advice. When she asked me about advice about dating me. I tell her in a calm way so she can understand the male perspective. Just this week, I messed up on a date and she started yelling at me that I did not listen to her on what to do and I am making excuses. I asked why are you yelling. I reminded her I can drop the friendship again for another 3 or more years. We calmed down and went home. I started to remember what happened 3 years ago and I remember that I thought she was a Narcissist. She thinks she always right and better than me. When I was about to lose my job, she did not care. That was the event to lead me to just drop the friendship. In the past few months, I listen to her tell me how beautiful she is (I stay silent on that one), how her company and customer loves her, and the guy post on facebook to get her attentions. I realize in a calm manner that she is a real Narcissist. I just forgot every little detail what happened 3 years ago that lead to my decision, but these past few events made me think it may be a mistake to save this friendship. When she was yelling at our last meetup, it realized after reading on google about the Narcissist, that they are hard to reason with since they think they are better and stubborn. It is hard to believe that the articles say that a Narcissist can't be true friends. That is where I am now.. Your opinion and experience?