if you really want your narc back, all you have to do is date someone better than him, physically, and status wise...
he'll be back in a minute.
it'll be such a hit to his ego.
i'm pretty sure your narc in reality isn't so great, most of them aren't. extrinsic and intrinsic value are two very different matters and oftentimes, those with EXTRINSIC value will go for any women ( as long as they're adequate), because they're empty.
so just fish for the flashiest and shiniest mofo out there,have him gush at you or "like" your photos on fb and your narc will be back in flash. make yourself into an object to be admired.
sounds manipulative...yup but it'll work.
the problem here is that you need to work on yourself. no one wants to date someone who thinks the way you do....unless they're a codependent.
now i wouldn't suggest doing any of this stuff cuz it's maladaptive and will never lead to a real relationship but if you must, play the game.
that's what is essential. if you want to date someone like that you have to learn to play the game. now the game will possibly further damage your self esteem but you seem like you're game for it anyhow. the narc will walk unscathed bc he doesn't care...
he's a cipher.