isis16 wrote:That's very disturbing to think that someone would try and discredit you and/or try to hurt you more than they alreay did. When I told N what I thought he was, he didn't really answer. He already had NS lined up so I think it was a moot point to make. He was so high on his new conquest, he couldn't hear me. My concern is when the NS wears off and she realizes he's ill. That's what happened the last time and the second D&D (I believe) was retaliation against me and his other supply for leaving him. I justdont want hims snapping out on me a year from now when I finally feel better like last time. Isn't there a statute of limitations for N's?
hurt you more then they already did?
hmmm...honey you are making this sound as if they should have empathy....you think these creatures are really aware that they hurt you? even if they are aware of this, they dont bother much about it, since they have no empathy at all, it would be kind of impossible for them to deal with your pain.
I dont think you should be speaking out loud about your thoughts, especially not to the person you think has NPD. You should also know that there is still a majority of the population who are not even aware of this disorder, so people might start thinking you are the crazy one for playing to be somekind of sigmund freud on others lol.
share your thoughts on the subject only with people close to you.
If you were dealing with a malignant narcissist and told him that (oh god i hope not) then you might really start thinking about changing your name and moving away.