Lol crystal, each to their own! i could understand f*cking in front of a mirror to feed your ego, but if there's no pleasure involved its gonna get kinda boring isn't it ? (or is it, obviously i don't know since i'm not you, lol.)
ThisEndUp wrote:For an N, is sex with a woman the same or similar to masturbation?
i would have thought meaningless sex would be more like "mutual maturbation", considering it is with another person.
ThisEndUp wrote:Sex is not the equivalent of a handshake. yes no?
well, most handshakes i've had don't usually end in orgasms
honestly, i'm not sure how your question could be answered, people with PDs, and even people with the same PD will answer differently. you might get 2 pwNPD answer, who say 2 completely different things.
personally, i don't know for sure what PD(s) i am struggling with cause i have no dx, but im answering cause ive had problems with empathy. casual sex, i could understand being seen like mutual maturbation, but i don't personally see sex as that and only that. i've actually kinda gone off sex that's like that.
apart from being about pleasure, sex - in a relationship - is about connection to me. - a lot of the time i need to be beaten shitless to be able to connect with anyone LOL. a lot of the rest of the time, i like it anyway
i'm a weird one, cause ive struggled with empathy a lot, in the past a lot more than i do now, but i really do have a desire to connect with others, and am trying to fight my problems.
i could be really narcissistic about it, lol and invent my own PD to explain it, but tbh, i don't think that's really what's going on, just that most people dxed with PD end up with more than one dx. its probably just something to do with how my issues are mixed, and/or where i'm at right now with recovery.
you'll probably find the same for people here with an NPD dx - that no 2 people will give the exact same answer. imho anyway.