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what typically happens if you insult a narc?

Postby c21 » Sat Oct 09, 2010 5:58 pm

So an accident happened last week and i ended up saying some really mean things to her.


she called me back and ws being really nice, i ended up saying sorry. i texted her after that a couple of times and was really nice to her but she has not contacted me since then.

did i screw it up? what typically happens if you do this to a narc? anyway to come back from it?
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Re: what typically happens if you insult a narc?

Postby Dove91801 » Sat Oct 09, 2010 6:06 pm

typically the Narc finds a way to blame you for everything that went on in the conversation. You end up feeling stupid and confused and like you are losing your mind!
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Re: what typically happens if you insult a narc?

Postby c21 » Sat Oct 09, 2010 6:08 pm

what does one need to do to come back from this?

she has not replied to my texts since then.
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Re: what typically happens if you insult a narc?

Postby Dove91801 » Sat Oct 09, 2010 6:23 pm

My narc stays mad for a long time. Usually it is just time that helps them get over it, or you can feed the ego of the narc but showering with praise and telling how wonderful they are, they love that! It is like a big monster is inside of them that needs LOTS of praise and attention and that will help them to focus on how they are perfect. Oh, and you can tell her how stupid and idiotic YOU are and how you wish you could be more like her. If these things don't work, nothing will. If this is truly a narc, my advice is RUN!
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Re: what typically happens if you insult a narc?

Postby Euler » Wed Oct 13, 2010 12:51 pm

I'll tell you exactly what happens when you insult a "narc", by the way love, that's a derogatory term.

You ######6 @@@@@@@, you come here because someone insulted you?! Grow the ###$ up, and get over it! If someone insulted me, than he/she isn't worth my ######6 ######6 time, end of story....or, stupid me knowing empaths don't give a flying ###$, would try to smooth it over. You narcissistic moron...bothering to make a profile, login, and ask a question like that? How about those who've really had a lifetime of abuse by a Narcissit?

Go ###$ yourself and get a ######6 life.

Moderators: 3 irrate posts like this in less than 10 minutes, obviously I'm having a ######6 break through or some $#%^ so have some curtesy and not ban me...Kay!
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Re: what typically happens if you insult a narc?

Postby c21 » Wed Oct 13, 2010 5:23 pm

Damn Euler,

are you talking to me babe? if so then you're on some next level $#%^.

bc im the one that insulted someone with NPD, not the other way around.
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Re: what typically happens if you insult a narc?

Postby Euler » Thu Oct 14, 2010 1:27 pm

Damn Euler,

are you talking to me babe? if so then you're on some next level $#%^.

bc im the one that insulted someone with NPD, not the other way around.


Yeah, I realize that @@@@@@@. Now how about being abused by one to the point of having a blend of Pd's...if you've gone through that than we'll ######6 talk bitch. Don't insult my intelligence again or else I'll rip you're pretty little head off, kay.
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Re: what typically happens if you insult a narc?

Postby Onebravegirl » Thu Oct 14, 2010 4:40 pm

Euler, I have warned you and Yes you will be banned if you keep verbally abusing people here.
This is an excellent place to get help, advice and support. We work hard at making it feel safe to all users.
I am concerned about you though. It sounds as if you have been seriously triggered by something.
I suggest that you find some other way to cool down before posting.
This place can be of support to you, if you let it.
If I can help in any way, please feel free to PM anytime.
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Re: what typically happens if you insult a narc?

Postby c21 » Thu Oct 14, 2010 4:56 pm

Euler wrote:
Damn Euler,

are you talking to me babe? if so then you're on some next level $#%^.

bc im the one that insulted someone with NPD, not the other way around.


Yeah, I realize that @@@@@@@. Now how about being abused by one to the point of having a blend of Pd's...if you've gone through that than we'll ######6 talk bitch. Don't insult my intelligence again or else I'll rip you're pretty little head off, kay.


You mad?

YEAAA YOU MAD :mrgreen:

Go convert to Hinduism. You need some yoga and meditation in your life.

wink wink
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Re: what typically happens if you insult a narc?

Postby shrek » Thu Oct 28, 2010 11:37 am

My experience, I just said no,no insult. My sister's N hubby made me feel his rage without saying anything nasty to me. But I felt the rage. One time he banged the cabinet door then slammed the cast iron pan on the stove so loud!. That is just because I said my daughter and I will eat breakfast later bec she was still asleep. Need I say more.
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