Premiss: I don't mean to respond to you, personally, SOMH, nor any other poster in particular.
But so many of us cite the 'incredible sex', the extraordinary prowess or sexual energy, or 'alpha' syndrome of our sexual partners, as if this special gift might preclude all other human developments.
Sexual energy is no doubt among the strongest of human energies, instinctual, primitive brain driven. And it can afford the most intense of physical pleasures, for both sexes. But let's not kid ourselves. The indulgence of this impulse proves nothing more than what it is - momentary phyisical pleasure. Often leading to a sense of humiliation and emptiness.
To tie that physical pleasure with a sincere human connection, sensitive to one's partner, both in the moment and in the context of our lives, requires a far move sensitive, intelligently developed human skill.
It's important to remember that using our energies in sensitive and intelligent ways is what leads us to more evolved and healthy people.
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