skippers wrote:Do you keep in touch with your ex Narc? Is there any benefit keeping in touch?
Should I keep in touch with my ex Narc 10 months after the horrible ending to our relationship? Otherwise I feel as though what was my best friend has died. I think I feel strong enough to not want to get back with her now, although I do really miss her and there is the risk that feelings could come flooding back.
I'm not even sure if she deserves my friendship after the deceit and so many lies. Part of me feels as though I need to see her again sometime so she can see that I've moved on and looking fit and healthy from the gym and successful at work, and she'll see what she threw away. Maybe this will be some kind of closure for me which I never got 10 months ago.
Plenty, if you have a masochistic streak. Incidentally, like many of the 'victims' here, I detect one such trait in you. So, 'yes', get back in touch with your NPD and you will get what you are looking for.skippers wrote:Is there any benefit keeping in touch?
shivers wrote:Talking of odd phone calls, I got one too.
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