Recently I've realized that I am either a narcissistic personality (covert) or an antisocial personality.
Bare with me cause this is going to be really unorganized.
Symptoms :
Lack of empathy
Lack of emotions (I feel fake when I express anything)
Irritable
(?) dissociation ( I will go more into detail)
Lack of conscience
Lack of sincere personality (I don't really know who I am)
Lack of self control
Apathetic
Dramatic
Manipulative
Attention seeking
Incapable of intimacy (maybe due to dissociation)
Selfish
Fluctuating mood
Binge eating
Lack of empathy:
I don't feel for anyone really. After realizing this I was shocked because I didn't know people actually Cared or felt bad I just thought it was socially acceptable to show concern or feel sad for others. After realizing this I sometimes try really hard and the best I can get is feeling bad for them because I have to try super hard to imagine that they are a WHOLE HUMAN BEING WITH THEIR OWN LIFE. And for a split second I'm like wow that really sucks. (But no it doesn't come naturally)
Lack of emotions: I just feel like unless I'm angry or sad there's not much emotion there. I feel like I'm on autopilot and being extremely fake in my life. Like if I truly act how I feel I'd come off as rude or weird but in reality I'm not excited and I'm not sad and I'm not happy and I don't miss you and I don't care etc.
Irritable: pretty much everyone is ######6 annoying. Children piss me off. If I'm trying to do something or read something and someone Is talking to me I get pissed off. If someone asks me the same question twice I get pissed off. It's like I'm on edge and I want to literally punch everyone who comes near me in their face. And it's as if I expect them to know It's like these random moods of "everyone shut the ###$ up and stay the ###$ away" and it annoys me when people ask what's wrong and show concern for me when Im Angry
Cause like honestly sometimes it feels like I want to stay angry. And after realizing I'm a possible narc I cry for how I yelled. (It's not guilt just a hopeless I'll never be normal feeling and the tears last for like a second) I feel weird cause I want to go back and act like nothing happened but I can't because I just acted selfishly and hated them all so much and they still think I am a kind good person it's just weird. They have no idea how annoying and repulsive I found them a second ago. It's like when I'm angry I have no self control and no desire to come out of it. It's hard for me to and if I do I think I might cry like a little baby. I wouldn't know what to do (but that's just my guess)
Dissociation: this is a BIG ONE. Cause I'm scared I'm just making this up or I'm misunderstanding this concept. I also have a theory that maybe all along I've been in a permanent state of dissociation and if I come out of it I would see the humanity and people's faces and truly be empathetic and guilt ridden and maybe even be able to connect to someone or feel a genuine relationship with them. But I basically feel like I've just been on autopilot. I can't remeber a lot of things and I feel like I'm always checked out doing the bare minimum to get through day. I do things to do things. I'll go on a road trip and drive and ignore all the people with me and I'm not enjoying any of it like they are I'm just there to be there. I'm not fully present. I also ALWAYS DAY DREAM. Like I am 20 years old and I play pretend in my room alone everyday. I've been doing this for so long. I day dream about sex and about being a victim. It's like I am a little actress. I day dream about people interviewing me. I day dream about speaking to a therapist and about dancing to music with certain people in my life watching. And I just feel like that's really really strange. When I was younger I couldn't wait to get home so that I could go to my room and be alone and do this weird $#%^.
I also binge eat I've been doing this since the third grade. I just eat and eat and eat and eat and nothing really grosses me out either....I binge and purge now and honestly I will sit in my tub and puke and then just wash myself after. Reality of things don't really hit me but when I think hard enough about it it does for a split second. Reality is just far I guess? But I'm so highly functioning that I don't know if it's really dissociation
Lack of conscience:
I don't have one. I don't really feel like it's there anymore. There's no one there to see the wrong I'm doing and if I don't even feel things or feel connected to myself then I'm not really going to care. (Am I ignoring it? I have no sense of self nothing in me like my own voice in my head. Even writing this feels like I'm reading it in someone else voice I don't know who I am)
Lack of sense of self/ personality:
I don't know who the ###$ I am. I don't have a sense of self I just feel like a shell. I feel empty I don't have anything...I don't know how to explain.
No sense of control:
No emotional control
I eat too much
I have no long term goal setting abilities
I am extremely lazy
Attention seeking:
Just act out for attention. I love telling stories real or fake, I love being seductive I love the surface level praise. I would sincerely dream ab being raped because I just wanted someone to want me so badly but if someone wanted to sit down and actually love me I'd push them away and be repulsed. I'd hate that. It freaks me out and turns me off. I can't have emotional connections to people it disgusts me.
But after realizing I'm a narc I realize that the compliments are just fuel and if I look deep enough they aren't doing much for me. Also I don't like sincere compliments either I'll always say thanks or I know but they don't mean much anymore. I just like people seeing me as a kind cute sweet hearted person but I don't take them to heart since I know what I truly am