One of my weakest points is jealousy. My ex knows it and he keeps pushing. He keeps mentioning and hanging out with all kinds of women (now that we're not together) His favorite thing in the world is creating these triangles where he simultaneously tortures me and highlights the fact he has more than one option.
I can play this, by play I mean not lose temper, for a while at least. But he just keeps pushing to extremes, and I eventually lose it and show jealousy.
How would a narc act in my position? How do I not lose control and temper? It's the hardest thing in the world for me, not to lose control in a situation like this. Still I accept his invites to these twisted hang-outs, I kinda like it.
I tried doing the same thing - he refuses the invite, he doesn't allow the same situation to be even created. He also claims he's not jealous.
Could this be true? Are narcissists by nature jealous? Let's say he moderately cares about me (for the sake of this discussion). Based on what I pick up on, I'd say he does get jealous but hides it, since he knows it's exactly what I'm hoping to see.