*sigh*
Yanks out handful of fiery tail feathers and shoves them up yer butt....
"Enlightenment"
The lashing out part, is a bad bad bad combination with someone just this side of ASPD and another of viewing existence.
BPM, as you are "aware" why is it soooooo impossible to say "sorry" when you fark up? I am curious about that aspect. Denial of the obvious when the evidence is so blatantly present, how does NPD thought processes farkle that simple thing? You'd think that a person was demanding that the offending party was being ordered to eat a rotting corpse, which I would not either, but to simply take responsibility for their own stupidity is an impossibility. Boggles the mind. And I doubled over laughing when I dealt with it, which led to contempt on my part for the other. Which is toxic to a r/s.
@ Strengthisbeauty
Sorry, taking this OT a wee bit, but I am also curious to know how you deal with that sort of thing with your husband. What occurs when he is denying his actions? How do you handle that and that of the kids?