Yorkshirelass wrote:Pink1
Sam is the poster child for NPD. How are you born a narcissist?
Sam has no empathy so he is a narcissist by default. But Sam is a psychopath.Psychopaths... we usually only know them from Hollywood movies. We never expect them to enter our real life. But, the psychopath is closer than you think. Experts believe their number to be as high as one in a hundred. Most of them function incognito in high-powered professions...all the way to the very top.
But... it takes one to truly know one. In this intriguing documentary, Sam Vaknin, a self-proclaimed psychopath
http://topdocumentaryfilms.com/i-psychopath/
How are you born a narcissist?
People are all unique all different, born with all sorts of personalities, extrovert, introvert, empathic, unempathetic. Their environment will make or break.
I believe a pathological narcissist is born with (possibly) a low functioning Amygdala they are born without the capacity for empathy and with a low conscience.
Amygdala:
The amygdala is an almond shaped mass of nuclei located deep within the temporal lobe of the brain. It is a limbic system structure that is involved in many of our emotions and motivations, particularly those that are related to survival. The amygdala is involved in the processing of emotions such as fear, anger and pleasure. The amygdala is also responsible for determining what memories are stored and where the memories are stored in the brain.
http://biology.about.com/od/anatomy/p/Amygdala.htm
They are born like it just as psychopaths are born like it;
http://www.npr.org/templates/story/stor ... =127888976
Some NPDs will be traited, and have learnt their N behaviour from NPD parents, they can be helped with therapy.
A person born a psychopath or narcissistic will not be helped by therapy, they do not have the capacity to change they are born that way. Wired differently.
Amygdala:
The amygdala is an almond shaped mass of nuclei located deep within the temporal lobe of the brain. It is a limbic system structure that is involved in many of our emotions and motivations, particularly those that are related to survival. The amygdala is involved in the processing of emotions such as fear, anger and pleasure. The amygdala is also responsible for determining what memories are stored and where the memories are stored in the brain.
http://biology.about.com/od/anatomy/p/Amygdala.htm
VirginiaEsquire wrote:I would argue that a pwNPD controls and represses his emotions to the extent that you aren't going to see outward expressions of anger, pleasure, excitement, etc, the way you would with others. And there may genuinely be some emotional limitations.
VirginiaEsquire wrote:
There was a study that showed that pwNPD had less grey matter in their brain, similar to Psychopaths, and that is what causes lack of empathy. But pwNPD very strongly feel fear, which is why they need control so desperately and universally.
narcbolan wrote:Oh sure, very much so. Thats why it only truly yields any good results if you've reached enough of a low point or rock bottom and even then it takes a very patient and understanding therapist to help break through a lot of those defenses.
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