Hi, This forum has helped me understand a lot in my relationship that I have had with my boyfriend who has NPD... I haven't posted anything before just read all your insight. Now I have a question, it is mostly situational question since I simply can't work out what he thinks and what shall I do...
We had a bit of argument recently, I appeared to be pretty needy for his attention and bombarded him with some clingy lines. He decided to spend weekend on his own, I was pretty much upset therfore arranged to see my girlfriend on Friday night.
When i got home it was super late and was texting my girlfriend to let her now I got safely home. I said: I am finally home, Thank you for a wonderful evening, Love you lots, kisses... When I received a delivery message I realised I sent it to him instead!!! Gosh such a stupid mistake!!! I wrote another text saying it was meant to be send to my girlfriend, but he never replied and just ignored everything.
Does he gives me now a silent treatment because I upset him with this text, maybe trying to show him that I have fun without him anyway? Maybe he think I tried to provoke him or make him jealous on purpose!!! ARGGGHHHH, nothing of that, but I feel really stupid the way this message went...
What is on his mind?