Depending on how aware/ignorant he is. He's basicly a kind of a split personality of a kind. He has two perspectives, kinda master-slave. But if his awareness and rationality and some kind of basic integrity exists he can decide to use them the best he can to produce a character that is acting mostly good IMO. I'm just trying to figure it out. I can't really say that I'm an example for everyone.
People are constantly relating to what I say, NoNs that live or have addictive relationships with narcs and covert narcs. This has been constant over the months. So I'm seeing something in it now. I don't really know if I'll be able to fix myself more than I have whatever that means. So I don't know really know the answer to your question. I am a person who everyone thinks is too good. I'm the only one who thinks I'm bad. Including my own wife. Who I consider to have abused. And I have, she just doesn't understand it, but I actually explained it to her. So, I dunno, if I'm just able to empathize and understand all these people her but am different, or am I just like them, I like to think the second because I see that these people want to connect to the world just like me, they're just having trouble with the narcissistic cognitive dissonance created through overconditioning.
I can't really understand how overt NPD is formed except through lack of fear meaning some degree of psychopathy. I know this will not sit will, but I can't explain the innate entitlement other than lack of fear, opposite of the covert narcs unentitlement from his abundance of fears.
I often can explain overt NPD behavior very precisely but I can't exhibit it. I just understand it at least some of it